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    Good that your mom is feeling better. And Jaquaia is so right. Here you can be yourself. Good mood, thats great. Glad you are ok. Not a good mood, talk about it here

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    Like usually, she sucks out everything from the people around.

    She calmed down.

    I have a question. If my mom is ill, do you think she is right trying not to let me go somewhere?

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    Hi Selena, I do not know the whole situation. If its going for a night out or going some days?

    But I think you do your best to care for your mother. And even with all the care someone can give its important to have moments for yourself. To recharge and give yourself a breather.

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    I have to agree with Mira. If you feel that you need a break and she's well enough then there's no reason for you not to go.
    Are you planning on going away for a week or a weekend?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selena
    ... I have a question. If my mom is ill, do you think she is right trying not to let me go somewhere?
    A very difficult question Selena, I can see no reason why you can't have a few days away if your mum seems to be settled, it's your decision in the end.
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    Your mum is ill, we all know that and you are her carer - but every carer has the right to have a break, and actually its super important that they have those breaks. Continuous caring with no respite takes its toll and, tbh, will eventually mean the carer can’t continue to carry out that care.

    Hunni, you need to ask for help, maybe from the congregation at the church?. The lack of support you have is going to break you
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    Hi, how are things going for you at the moment?

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    My Mom calmed down and there are not so many disagreements between us.

    This week has been tough for me, because I've been feeling very tired and a little bit ill, maybe due to weather, my blood pressure got around 147/87.

    I did a translation in the last holiday I had. A colleague told me that I need a vacation without any work, that all illnesses came back and appear due to this.

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    Your colleague is right. You need time to just rest
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