Thats all so true. I want to be there for everybody. I am still there for everybody that would have my help. But all there is to do for all you lovely people is listen to me moan. And complain. There is not much to help with that.
Thats all so true. I want to be there for everybody. I am still there for everybody that would have my help. But all there is to do for all you lovely people is listen to me moan. And complain. There is not much to help with that.
Do you remember MaraUT? She had a phrase "sometimes you're the horse and sometimes you're the cart" and Emmie added, "and sometimes you're lying in the cart flat on your back!"
It's swings and roundabouts. Sometimes you are doing the supporting, sometimes you need the support. There have been plenty of times I've had support from the members here. They will never know how much I am so grateful for them being here, never judging and it doesn't matter what I say I know they're right behind me. Just allow us to help you as I know you'd help me...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Jaquaia (21-03-19)
I have no problem with you pm'ing me. The few you sent made me smile.
J hasn't been talking to me about about what's in his head because he "didn't want to worry me" yet he always wants me to tell him what's bothering me, he tells me it's his job to support me. He doesn't see that it's part of my role to support him too, he thinks I'm more important than he is. I want to know because I love him and want to do whatever I can to help him. I love everyone here too, and while I may not always know what to say or have time to comment, I'm generally always reading. If I can do something to help those here then I will, you too! I've also seen lots of examples of you leaving a kinfd word on others posts. It takes a special person to look beyond their own suffering and try to help others.
Tên përdu, jhamâi së rëcôbro
Thanks Jaquaia, but I dont want to spam people anymore.
If this thread could be closed that would be great thanks.
Are you sure?
I'd like to be able to keep talking to you on your own thread if that's ok? If you want this one closed that's fine, but will you open another?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
You're not spamming other peoples threads, where did you get that idea from.
@Jaq: Brilliant post Jaq like you I read most posts sometimes answering seriously and sometimes being rather silly, sometimes I can't express what I want to say so leave a bear or panda smiley.
Mira if you want to open a new thread then as soon as that is done I can close this one.
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
Morning, lovely. You never spam, you engage - there is an ocean of difference.
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
I dont know if I can open a new thread at this moment. I do not want to complain all the time.
Hi magie, at the moment I am coping. But not in a real good way.
But the most positive thing you've said all week is that you're coping. It might not feel very big but I think it's huge. Well done.