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    Panto this year past fair enough, but the circus? What else are they throwing in? No. I'm sorry love, but I don't see this as being healthy for the children or for him!
    I'm with you totally and think this is pushing it... but that's just my opinion...
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    Panto this year too. They went to T's parents evening together, his school play too. I can understand that to some extent. It's good for him to see they're there for him. He keeps saying that he wants the deed of separation through as it will tie her hands a bit more legally, I just can't see much changing at the moment.
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    Jaq I would be really struggling with it all and I don't think you are horrible for struggling. I'm not very good at sharing the people I love so I totally get it..... and you're much nicer than me for not blowing a fuse at it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaquaia View Post
    Panto this year too. They went to T's parents evening together, his school play too. I can understand that to some extent. It's good for him to see they're there for him. He keeps saying that he wants the deed of separation through as it will tie her hands a bit more legally, I just can't see much changing at the moment.
    I understand that they went to the parents evening together. Play? I s'pose I can get that too - although I wouldn't sit next to her - but why do the panto this year too? I thought that he went with the children with his parents and she went along too? Why can't they drop her out of it? Why does she or should she want to go?
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    They've always taken the children on their own before Christmas and with his parents after Christmas.
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    Things change. I just don't see why they are continuing like this....
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    I originally suggested them carrying on with the panto as I thought it would be good for the children to have a tradition that doesn't change. I can't shift the thought that she's going to suggest they try again though...
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    Ok I do not know what a panto is. But to be honoust. I think doing things together should be at a minimum. Like Suzi said. Be at the same event sure. But not sit together or go there together. To me thats just weird.

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    It's a pantomime, it's a traditional play put on over the Christmas period here. I've never been to one
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    Ok thanks for explaining it to me. Do you know if this is something that will get less and less or if they think its a good idea to keep doing these things?

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