I don't but then I'm not exactly known for logical thinking when it comes to me am I?
I don't but then I'm not exactly known for logical thinking when it comes to me am I?
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Have you told him this is how you are feeling?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Yes and he's promised me he won't back out. Still debating Thursday/Friday. Leaning towards the Friday due to cost, don't really want to lend off my dad.
And not convinced I've done the right thing, even though he's said he's not angry with me, but I messaged J's friend to let her know just how much he's struggling as I think he needs as much support as he can get right now...
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Borrow the money. Go on the Thursday....
And yes, fwiw I think you've done the right thing.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Graham has offered to pick me up from the station if I go on the Thursday so don't have to worry about that
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Are you accepting and going on Thursday?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
From how I can see it if you balance everything out a bit. The best thing would be yo go thursday. Especialy since you dont know how many times you might see them after this one.
I don't know. I'm still worrying about cost. If I lend money then I still need to pay my dad back and that will worry me, especially as I still owe him money from before Christmas. It's his birthday next weekend and I'm not liking that I can't get him as much as normal, and I know it's not what I get but the thought, I just like being able to spoil him a bit. He may be an arse at times but he has always made sure we had whatever we needed when we were growing up and still does now as much as he can. And it's J's mums 70th 2 days before my dads birthday so I need to find her something too...
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Sweetheart you are overthinking all of this.
Basically you only see this group 1ce a year. It's been a rough year for you all - spend the time with them. You don't want something to happen and then "if only I'd spent that extra time....."
Your Dad is still your Dad and he always will be, he won't care about the amounts and probably doesn't want you scrimping to buy him something. You always find such awesome and thoughtful gifts - he will treasure anything you do get him.
J's mum will not be expecting anything huge as you don't really know her. I'd go with something bath related or a pretty scarf if she wears them?
At some point you are going to have to put you first. Not money, not J, not your Dad, but YOU. You don't do it often. It's important. Do it.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Strugglingmum (11-04-19)
^^^wss 100%
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Suzi (11-04-19)
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