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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    I don't agree but then you probably could have guessed I wouldn't!!!

    I get to choose my modules from tomorrow too and still overthinking that. Sometimes it would be nice if my head was quiet.
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    Paula is so right. You are making his life so much better.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I think you're really good for him! You're kindness and unselfishness is fantastic. He's never been used to it in the past has he? He's a lucky guy to have you.

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    He hasn't. He is one of the sweetest, kindest men I have ever met. He's surprised that I'm not bothered by him having lunch with his best friend today. Her having boobs doesn't threaten me as I trust him and I know how much he loves me, I'm very secure in his love so I have no need to feel threatened. I suggested he take her for pizza and he said that wouldn't feel right as that's our thing I thought that was really sweet! He even got a glowing report back from Sarah!! Yet doesn't understand how anyone could like him as he's been told so often that he's the problem.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaquaia View Post
    I trust him and I know how much he loves me, I'm very secure in his love so I have no need to feel threatened.
    I needed to highlight this. This is amazing. I never thought I'd hear you saying that you were secure that someone loved you...
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I still have moments where I get incredibly insecure and worry that he'll get fed up of me and leave me, but I never doubt how much he loves me. He tells me multiple times, every single day and shows me with his gestures. Even Sarah commented that it's blatantly obvious how into each other we are.
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    So I've bitten the bullet and applied for full-time study next year...
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    Woohoo! Well done hunni, I’m so proud of you!
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Ian's best friend is a woman. That's who he stayed with in London for a weekend a couple of weeks ago. She's stayed with us too and I have no problems with it at all. It's useful because he gets feedback from a woman's perspective which helps a lot! Especially if they talk about moi!! In the nicest possible way of course! Good for you going full time.

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    I'm still scared that I'm not good enough, I mean I struggled with full time study the first time round, but I have to keep reminding myself that I was ill and untreated. Things are different now.

    Oh he's obviously had an affair with her Flo as a man and a woman can't possibly be just friends!!!! Sometimes I wish I could do Cruella serious damage for what she's put J through...
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