My dad is generally pretty quiet and J is too. He's very much like me, quiet, shy and introverted. My dad finds that difficult to deal with as he doesn't know what to say to him. My brother can be a bit of an arrogant arse
My dad is generally pretty quiet and J is too. He's very much like me, quiet, shy and introverted. My dad finds that difficult to deal with as he doesn't know what to say to him. My brother can be a bit of an arrogant arse
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Did J make a point of saying hi to them when he came in?
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He didn't, Talia pounced on him and my mum started talking to him. My brother does this all the time and he's got fed up of it, but I told him yesterday that if he makes a point of saying hi, my brotherr is the one who ends up looking like a rude arse.
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Yup, that's what I was going to suggest lol
How's you today gorgeous?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Has he spent time with your family? Perhaps you could all go out for a meal to get to know each other?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
I'm ok. Tired and on edge. My sister is coming down as it's my dads birthday but I have no idea when and it has me on edge
He's spent time with my parents. He's met my brother a couple of times and instead of talking to him, my brother just went moaning to my sister as J just walked in the house... you know, just like my mum told him to ages ago... He's not met my sister, apparently she's not interested in anyone I'm seeing as it just ends up in an argument and this way she can't get in trouble. No love, acting like an adult actually helps, rather than a spoilt brat! Being civil costs nothing!
As it is, my brother and sister see each other lots as they work together too, they go out for food together yet never think of asking me if I want to go. And I'm fed up of reaching out to them and being rejected.
Last edited by Jaquaia; 20-04-19 at 01:00 PM.
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Oh hunni, I'm sorry about that...
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I'm used to it. If I'm honest, I felt unwelcome today and it's my home. It just seemed to take her all her time to talk to me.
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Ok one weird thing the Dutch do is congratulate everybody with someones birthday. So congratulations Jaq on your fathers birthday.
Sorry you are feeling that way. But I can understand real well. They are not being nice at all. Its not that hard to make an effort.