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    You’re not horrible, lovely, very far from it. You’re ill. Jaq is right, talk to A
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    Hey chick, how you doing?
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    Today I'm a bit brighter. I went to my training centre. A didn't go to the hospital today as my daughter had a piano lesson and he needed to take her. He seems a bit more relaxed too. We have cooked together and just connected a bit so I'm not having horrible thoughts about him not loving me or me just being a burden. I must be such a needy cow that I need attention from him to feel validated and worthy of oxygen.
    On a positive both my little exam sitters only have 2 exams left each. My daughter does both on Wednesday and that is her finished. My son has a break for 2 weeks and then both exams. The stress levels are definitely dropping around here. Now all we need is my MIL to improve. She has developed a chest infection now in hospital. Hopefully antibiotics will kick in quickly.
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    You really, really aren't a "needy cow" at all! It's hard when you are struggling yourself and the person you need isn't there....
    Well done to your little people! Mine all start properly after half term...
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    If you think you're a needy cow then you should see some of mine and J's conversations!!! Talking is important, as is understanding that how you feel is valid.
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    How are you today lovely?
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    Hey, lovely, you are so very far from needy!

    Did MIL get a diagnosis?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    Hey, lovely, you are so very far from needy!

    Did MIL get a diagnosis?
    It's all still really up in the air. She has lost feeling to her left leg and poor sensation on right. She can't really stand well. She is in a ton of pain and has lost the sensation of when she needs to go the the loo so definitely something spinal but she was also very run down on admission so they can't do much til she physically improves. She has had countless mris etc. At the moment she is very poorly with her chest infection.
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    Poor thing! It must be so hard on all of you.... Are you managing to pace?
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    I had a visit from my CPN today. I talked some stuff out with her and it helped. She met A for the first time too so was reassuring him to lift the phone to her anytime. She is lovely but I'm still missing my old CPN a bit. However he has left so I need to buck up and get on with things.
    My daughter has finished all her AS level exams. Today was Geography and Chemistry so that is her completed. She has a week of work experience towards the end of June but until then she can relax. Hurrah.
    My son has a few more to do yet but has a gap now so he is also taking things a bit easier. Hopefully the stress levels in the house will start to decrease.
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