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    I don't even know anymore. I was making plans to get things done that were getting me down, next thing he stormed out.
    When he came back he said I make him feel useless because I was asking other people to do the jobs. I asked him if he had the time, energy or inclination to do the jobs. He said no.
    I said I was sorry if it made him feel useless but I'm trying to do something to make the place look better then I lost my rag and yelled he could do the damn jobs then. but something inside me died. He came later and said sorry. I said sorry for losing my temper but something has gone. I am completely shut down.
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    Oh sweetheart, I’m sorry, though it’s always horrible arguing with your partner and especially so when you’re already struggling. A loves you and this will blow over - you just both need to give each other some time to cool down and then talk about it. You’re not shut down, lovely, otherwise you wouldn’t care about feeling ‘numb’.
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    I completely agree. Right now you are both hurting. Maybe give it some time and then try sitting down just you and talk?
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    Hi, lovely, how are you doing?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    I was coming to ask too!
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    Just leaving these here for you
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    Thank you Mike. X
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    How are you lovely?
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    Just saying hi and letting you all know I'm doing a bit better. Hopefully normal service will resume shortly
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    Thanks for checking in xx
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