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    Iíd rather not go into detail but itís people issues and itís knocked me back a bit. I just want to draw a line under today and start again tomorrow. Thanks for being there it really helps,

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    People issues are often the hardest and cause most pain when they don't go right....
    Here's hoping for a better day tomorrow.
    Today I aim to be the best person I can be.
    That mean that yesterday or tomorrow I might be a better person,
    but today's best is more than good enough for today.

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    Howís things today?
    Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.

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    Iím a bit of a mess at the moment but things may become clearer one way or another later today. Just had my final meeting with the Crisis Team they think Iíve progressed far enough for them to stand back and provide 24hr. phone help rather than occasional face to face meetings. I suppose that is a positive but added to my other issues it doesnít feel like it.

    I intend to post another reply later no matter whether it is good or bad.

    Thanks for caring.

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    We do care!
    Well done for progressing through the crisis team visits, but I also understand why that's daunting. You can always call them as and when you need to - they are still there and that's an important thing to remember.

    I do truly hope your day has got better as it has gone on..
    Today I aim to be the best person I can be.
    That mean that yesterday or tomorrow I might be a better person,
    but today's best is more than good enough for today.

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    Firstly I apologise for not posting as promised. It was a very bad day yesterday as I was hoping for some positive news but fearing the worst. Each minute seemed like an hour and I was very down. The positive thing is at least I now know where I stand - I was holding out false hopes and not for the first time.

    Going out for lunch with my parents today and thereís some explaining to do. Again, not easy but it needs to be done.

    Iíll post again later because sharing seems to help. Thanks for listening.

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    I'm glad you're finding it helpful to post here.
    How are you feeling today?
    Today I aim to be the best person I can be.
    That mean that yesterday or tomorrow I might be a better person,
    but today's best is more than good enough for today.

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    Awful. My wife has just told me sheís off to see her solicitors to sign documents to initiate our divorce. At the moment I feel as though Iíve gone backwards to the beginning and Iím going to have to relive that pain all over again. I feel sick.

    Iíll still be seeing my parents today. I need to let them know some but not all of the situation but itís not something Iím looking forwards to.

    At the moment my wife is in the other room singing along to love songs on the radio and itís breaking my heart.

    I may need to take a break from posting here for a while but donít worry Iím not going to do anything stupid.

    Thanks.

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    Oh sweetheart I'm so sorry. Has it gone too far for something like Relate couples counselling?
    You don't have to take a break, you can post the not so good stuff as well as the positive stuff... Here for you.
    Today I aim to be the best person I can be.
    That mean that yesterday or tomorrow I might be a better person,
    but today's best is more than good enough for today.

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    Itís too late for Relate, it was offered but my wife did not want it. Iím not going into more detail as itís pretty negative stuff and it wonít help me. My postings may take a break until Iím feeling like sharing again.

    At the moment I havenít given up on the future but I am dreading it.

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