Sweetheart could you be pushing him too hard to talk every day? Talking about what's in your head is incredibly exhausting - maybe next time just see if he wants a cuppa? If you keep stopping and asking him if he wants a hug or something then it's drawing more attention to the fact that he's probably feeling rubbish....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
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Perhaps.. I just want him to know he can tall if he wants to.. We haven't really spoken about anything and he hasn't seemed sad since Sunday so that's when it was last brought up...
I am just not sure what's the best for him...
Maybe talk about random stuff too?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Yeah we've been doing that and when we do he seems fine...
Then maybe try that for a while?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Try what.. Talking about generic things..? We do that everyday.. That's why I feel like he's being fine at times...
Sweetie, just try being relaxed and ‘normal’ around him, everyday things are really absolutely fine. Look at it this way, if he had cancer, would he want to cope with you constantly asking if he’s in pain, what he needs you to do etc?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Yeah I guess you're right... It's just so hard knowing what right and wrong....
I think for the most part I am being normal.. Although there are times when I dont feel I can... Normally I'd be affectionate and hug him when he gets in from work.. And snuggle up to him when we watch a film or go to bed.. But right now I am too scared to do any of that.....
You shouldn't be scared of it at all...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
But he doesn't want me to.....
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