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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    Maybe that's just too much right now. He probably believes that he doesn't deserve you, that you deserve better, that he's never going to give you what you want/need etc etc
    You have to remember that he's also dealing with a meds change too! He was "spoken to" by your brother last night, he'd forgotten you were going out etc.... Sweetheart give him time...
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    No other road, No other way, No day but today. (Rent. Jonathan Larson)

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    Remember take this hour by hour.

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    I actually feel like saying that may have helped.. He asked why I said that and i told him how I was scared too and how I felt like he doesn't love me anymore and he actually listened really well..

    He even told me that when I need a cuddle I should come and get one because he didn't want me to not feel like I could cuddle him...

    It was a surprisingly emotional but fulfilling chat..

    We spoke about his recovery and I told him that it won't be like "I've woken up today feeling amazing" .. It will be gradual things like today I found something funny and today I looked at the dog and felt happy.. I mean that's what it was like for me anyway..??

    After that though he even rested his head on my shoulder while we looked through my phone...

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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    That's really positive..
    There's only us, There's only this, Forget regret, Or life is your to miss,
    No other road, No other way, No day but today. (Rent. Jonathan Larson)

    Look! I'm walking a marathon in May for the British Heart Foundation!
    Sponsor me if you fancy! No pressure, cheerleaders needed too!

    https://mymarathon18.everydayhero.com/uk/s-shaw

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    It really is.. After it he was so relaxed and calm...

    I hope I was right in what I said about his recovery.. Obviously I've only got my experience to go on..?

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    That’s true for most people though there is no one fits all with this illness
    Cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7

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    That's very true.. But I think he was expecting to wake up one morning feeling much better or much less numb.. I wanted to let him know at least that it might be smaller more unnoticeable changes at first...

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