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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    I would hate for anyone in my family to discuss my relationship. It feels that it's like betraying him - that everyone is talking about him itms? I think that it would really, really hurt him. I think you should tell your family to back off...
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    Yeah I can see both your points.. I think my brother was just really upset about the other weekend and feels a little bit hurt by it all..

    Aside from that I don't think he's ever said anything to him about us...

    I forgot to mention.. After a while of me being downstairs last night he came downstairs to find out what I was doing.. He's being very weird.. Not sure if he wants space or not.. I've tried to back off a lot but he seems to be more clingy...
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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    Weird in what way?
    Thing is it's not just your brother - your Dad was effectively spying on him when he went away last weekend to and gave you reports on his behaviour too....
    There's only us, There's only this, Forget regret, Or life is your to miss,
    No other road, No other way, No day but today. (Rent. Jonathan Larson)

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    Like asking what I am doing all the time and why I am in the other room instead of being with him.. Asking why I took so long to come to the gym.. Just asking lots of questions about what I am doing tha t sort of thing.. He said he wanted space so I've pulled back and I am trying to give him that..

    The only thing my dad made "reports" on was the fact that he kept going off to use the phone but didn't try to talk to me which upset my dad...

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    These aren’t dissimilar questions to the ones you kept asking when you first became a member here. He’s feeling insecure too.....
    Cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7

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