It does but he wants the cat even though he has no home. He has agreed that H can keep it but she is worried that if she gives him an excuse he will take him.
It does but he wants the cat even though he has no home. He has agreed that H can keep it but she is worried that if she gives him an excuse he will take him.
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Sounds like he's being a real git... She's so definitely better off without him.
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Maybe the cats need to be included in any separation agreement/divorce papers?
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Yes but H does not want to divorce at the moment.Originally Posted by Paula
Anyway hubby came over tonight and said now the shock had worn off he is ok about another dog.
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It might be sensible to look at a separation agreement though - just so they both know where they stand legally
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
I agree, do it legally on paper. Why doesn't she want to divorce?
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She agreed that it would be a good idea and will sort something out in the new year. She is concerned that about the expense of a divorce when neither of them is looking to remarry at present.
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Well we have a new addition to the pack. Macey joined us yesterday. Things have gone surprisingly well. Ember has accepted her and has even been playing with her. Macey (or Kya as we have renamed her) is a little bigger than Ember so we are having to watch that she does not get too pushy with her. Ember sleeps with me and Kya with H so Ember gets her own space. Kya even came to work with us today and was very good, although we waited till everyone was settled before we let her out.
The cars have spent the last two days under my bed but as Kya is shut in H's room at night they can have the house to themselves at night. Having said that this evening they have been getting braver so things are proceeding as planned there. The studio cat Mr Tiggs has already put Kya in her place.
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Awww do we get pics? Glad it’s going well so far
They wouldn’t necessarily need to get a solicitor if they just want to have something in writing between the two of them - though any document like that isn’t legal binding. Anyway, Citizens Advice have got details of options
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/fa...-you-separate/
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Thank you that is useful.
I have lots of pics but can't remember how to share them with you without using fb
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