General musings and random ramblings *TRIGGERS*

[Jaquaia]

I'm agitated. But seeing J soon so yay!!!!!

The plan today is breakfast, meds, shower, hugs, assignment, packing!!! I bet I forget something...

[Paula]

One thing at a time. Breakfast done?

[Jaquaia]

And medicated

[Suzi]

Packing sorted? Or a list written?

[Jaquaia]

I've selected my make up and got my dress out of the wardrobe. That's as far as I've got. Still need to finish my essay, my clothes are on the line drying, my anxiety had got to the point were I felt sick but J has settled that and kept me calm when my mum ed me off!

[Suzi]

What did your mum do/say?

[Jaquaia]

I was upstairs with J and she brought up some pjs and just tapped and walked straight in and started rambling on about some app the smoking cessation team are going to install for her and moaning about my dress riding up so she could see my knickers. First of all, you're supposed to knock and wait for a reply, not just waltz straight in! You invaded the only personal space that I have. Secondly, she knows that J is struggling at the moment so we could have been having an intensely personal conversation and she could have stopped him opening up further. Thirdly, it was just plain rude!!! It could have waited until after he left! There was absolutely no need for her to come in and stay there wittering on for so long. And then to moan about my dress being up, and actually pull it down, and it covered me, it was just where she was stood!!! One, get off me!!! Two, If I want to flash my underwear in my room I will!!!

[Suzi]

OO that would have really got to me! My girls are 13 and 14 and B is 17 and I wouldn't dream of that - normally I knock and then I say "OK for me to pop in?" I learnt how much I hated it when my Mum did it to me - oh and read my diary...

[Jaquaia]

I just flopped over J and buried my head in his chest. I didn't even think, I was annoyed and frustrated and it felt natural to turn to him. I'll be surprised if she doesn't comment on it. But I just thought it was really rude of her. And then my dad walked in to hand her her phone and she started taking the call in my room!!! FFS!!!!

[magie06]

Oh god. That's so rude. Aisling is 11 but her room is her business. The only time I go in there, is when she's not in there to either get her washing or return her laundry. I very rarely go in when she's at home.