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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    I've got a court summons through for more then 1800 for something dickhead assured me he had sorted and gotten written off while we were still together. I texted him about it and all I got was "you were there, you heard them say they would write it off". No offer to help pay or anything. I've blown up, called him a parasite and blocked every way of getting in touch that he has and promptly had a meltdown, except I decided to hoover the hallway rather then hurt myself.
    Tn prdu, jhami s rcbro

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    Oh mate you have my sympathy. I’m still paying off debts from my ex too. Parasite is pretty much accurate.
    The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it.'
    J. M. Barrie

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    Talk to Citizens Advice. Theyll be able to support you
    I believe if you wear enough pretty lipstick, sparkly jewellery and great shoes, no one will notice the size of your ass

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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    Definitely talk to the CAB, they should be able to help you so you don't have to deal with it...
    You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.
    - Jon Kabat-Zinn

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    I'd gone into hiding again. I do that when I'm struggling I've noticed. A lot of old feelings are being dragged up this week that I would rather stay buried.
    Tn prdu, jhami s rcbro

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    Very huge, gentle hugs
    I believe if you wear enough pretty lipstick, sparkly jewellery and great shoes, no one will notice the size of your ass

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    So instead of burying them why not let them out? Maybe they will be gone for good that way or at least less of a problem.
    The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it.'
    J. M. Barrie

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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    It's an old problem. Talking about it doesn't seem to help much. I know that I've spoken about it here before. I just wish I could stop giving others words the power to hurt me.
    Tn prdu, jhami s rcbro

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    Old problem?
    The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it.'
    J. M. Barrie

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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    Talk to us lovely x
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