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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    I've got a court summons through for more then 1800 for something dickhead assured me he had sorted and gotten written off while we were still together. I texted him about it and all I got was "you were there, you heard them say they would write it off". No offer to help pay or anything. I've blown up, called him a parasite and blocked every way of getting in touch that he has and promptly had a meltdown, except I decided to hoover the hallway rather then hurt myself.
    Tn prdu, jhami s rcbro

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    Oh mate you have my sympathy. I’m still paying off debts from my ex too. Parasite is pretty much accurate.

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    Talk to Citizens Advice. Theyll be able to support you
    Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.

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    Not "nagging" really... Suzi's Avatar
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    Definitely talk to the CAB, they should be able to help you so you don't have to deal with it...
    Today I aim to be the best person I can be.
    That mean that yesterday or tomorrow I might be a better person,
    but today's best is more than good enough for today.

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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    I'd gone into hiding again. I do that when I'm struggling I've noticed. A lot of old feelings are being dragged up this week that I would rather stay buried.
    Tn prdu, jhami s rcbro

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    Very huge, gentle hugs
    Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.

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    So instead of burying them why not let them out? Maybe they will be gone for good that way or at least less of a problem.

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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    It's an old problem. Talking about it doesn't seem to help much. I know that I've spoken about it here before. I just wish I could stop giving others words the power to hurt me.
    Tn prdu, jhami s rcbro

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    Old problem?

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    Talk to us lovely x
    Today I aim to be the best person I can be.
    That mean that yesterday or tomorrow I might be a better person,
    but today's best is more than good enough for today.

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