Then do it. If it's something that you really want to do then you should do it.
Then do it. If it's something that you really want to do then you should do it.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
selena (06-12-15)
Yes, thanks for advice.
Now for me the most difficult is work. My boss wants me to do everything and on time. About two weeks ago she gave me a serious medical translation to do in two weeks ( 39 pages!). Meantime I haven't worked last holidays because I got really tired. In working hours I have been given other little translations that took my time and also my duties of office manager. I can't cope with everything!
The last week two quick translations made by other translators were on the point to be rejected. The boss got it, but I'm afraid she put pressure on me again to finish it by next week.
And also on last Friday I had a terrible ' little crazy' client who wants everyone to be her servant.
And I really don't know how to cope with everything, I'm getting too anxious and, sincerely, I don't want to work home systematically as I barely get some rest.
Trust your gut instinct Selena. If something seems wrong or makes you feel uncomfortable, he is not the man for you.
When its the right guy, you won't even need to ask our opinion, you will just know!
Anyone talking about marriage and babies and meeting up (from a different country) in the first messages is to be avoided, in my opinion.
You need to address this issue with your boss. You shouldn't be expected to work every evening and weekend.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
The thing is that I don't understand his behaviour anymore. He was waiting for me to come, later when he found out that I would not come he became cold and distant. He barely replies to my messages and I don't know what to think. I asked him about the reason, he said he is not in the mood.
Then leave it, he doesn't sound very nice. Its not your fault the work trip fell through. Besides, the way your boss is, its unlikely you'd get a chance to socialise anyway!
purplefan (06-12-15)
My 'guy' has apparently disappeared, probably no interest, because no sex or money from my part, like some women on other forum said.
Maybe it's better.
Hi Selena if this guy was only interested in sex or money then you're better without him.Originally Posted by selena
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
selena (08-12-15)
I think it's for the best. What can you do in your local area to meet new people?
Maybe go to a club, but if only I have some free time...
I know you're right, however sometimes this stupid thought comes to my mind " What have I done wrong?"
But he was not right either, he wanted that I would come to his country, not him to mine.
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