Time Passing By and Fear of Failure *Triggers*

[selena]

I would stay away. Something doesn't sound right there.

I am currently starting something with a Greek guy. We met online, we hit it off and there seems to be a special connection between us. We message every day, we video chat everyday, sometimes a few times a day. We talk about everything, books, music, films, art, and we have a lot in common. I tell him about my life and he tells me about his. We ask each other questions, wanting to know more about each other. And although we both really want to meet in person he is not pressuring me and is willing to be patient until he can come here as he thinks I'm worth waiting for. I think that's what it should be like. The way he seems to be pressuring you and then getting moody because you don't give in sounds very dodgy! There must be something warning you if you don't really want to talk with him on skype. Trust your instinct.

Thank you.

May I ask you, if you do not mind, how much time has been passed before you start speaking on camera?

[Jaquaia]

We started speaking on camera within a few days. He's a very clever guy and he intrigued me. He sometimes finds it easier as he sometimes struggles with english and I find it lets me read his face so I can see if he's lying or not.

[OldMike]

We started speaking on camera within a few days. He's a very clever guy and he intrigued me. He sometimes finds it easier as he sometimes struggles with english and I find it lets me read his face so I can see if he's lying or not.

Sorry to butt in Jaquaia but can you really tell if someone's lying just by looking at them?

As for dating sites being single and 68 years old all I can add is be very careful.

[Jaquaia]

I believe that you can. Some people are very good liars but some give themselves away. I'm a terrible liar, everyone can tell I'm lying just by looking at me. You have certain tells.

And I'm always careful. I've been treated appallingly in the past so never really trust anyone straight away.

[OldMike]

I believe that you can. Some people are very good liars but some give themselves away. I'm a terrible liar, everyone can tell I'm lying just by looking at me. You have certain tells.

And I'm always careful. I've been treated appallingly in the past so never really trust anyone straight away.

I was thinking about tells, you're probably more perceptive than me.

[Suzi]

I think you can too

Selena - I don't think anyone should ever pressure someone into doing something they aren't comfortable with.

[selena]

Yes, I've told him that he should be more patient.

The thing is that I become soon attached with a man I like, although I'm trying not to show my real feelings.

[Jaquaia]

I think whenever you liike someone there is always an element of attachment there. You will know what feels right to you. If you don't have any desire to skype with this guy then he is definitely not right.

[Suzi]

Do you want to skype him?

[selena]

Yes, I think of it.