Time Passing By and Fear of Failure *Triggers*

[Suzi]

Share that kind of information when you want to. I don't think that there is a set time?

[selena]

Share that kind of information when you want to. I don't think that there is a set time?

So do I, but of these guys seem so impatient, like they have never seen women before.

[Paula]

Then they're out for one thing. Ignore them

[Suzi]

Totally agree with Paula!

[mitz]

I'm so exhausted that I was nearly falling on my way home!

About dating, just a little question for those who can answer. How much time should pass before you give your FB ( let's say additional one) and/or skype to a man who seems to share common values?

Just doesn't want to hurry things up.

don't do either; you are already communicating online, that is what the website is for., so what's the point in giving out extra personal online information to strangers? you have to meet up with people for a coffee or something, after communicating on the website for a while, to know if there is any future.

[selena]

Finally the end of the week, I've had a real torture with translation of some judicial documents into French!

Thank you, mitz, I've just got little lost in the big wood of online dating.

[selena]

And there's another reason for sadness. I've met an apparently normal guy online, but a woman told me that men of this ethnicity are not to trust and I should cut everything. I don't give all information, just finding out about 'love rats'. I really hesitate what to do next.

[Suzi]

I think it's incredibly racist of that woman to state that "men of his ethnicity aren't to trust!" You get good and not so good men, women and children of every ethnicity!

[rose]

Trust your gut instinct. Do not hand out Skype or any other info if you don't want to.
If you want to do Skype, then perhaps set up a separate account for anyone you meet online. Be prepared that some guys will seem normal and then become inappropriate on Skype.

Regarding the guy you think is nice.... well, if he is then he is nice. I notice some of your friends say some incredibly judgemental things! But I would try to meet someone who lives near you, so you can easily meet up if you want to.

[selena]

Yes, and they are not real friends by the way. It's sad that I trusted them before.