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    The most important thing I learned is that I ( and nobody else)should not feel guilty about my illness, now I can talk and think about it easier.

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    Another annoying think that bothers me is posting on blogs.

    Let's say, you have a blog or post to a particular site thread about your passion - let it be recipes, tourism guides, celebrities etc. You do some good work and after you face unreasonable criticism, arogant stuff or additional identical material from people always sure of knowing better than you. Of course, constructive criticism is good but web attacks from ill arrogant people or trolls could take this desire of sharing your experience.

    In real life could be harder of course.

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    Some people make it their life's work to upset people. They are very very sad people Selena and not worth worrying about.

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    Right you are, just have to move forward and forget about it.

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    There are people out there who just don't seem to be able to be nice at all!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Summer is the hardest time for me because I'm ashamed of my far from slender body ( and all because of this hormonal disorder!).

    I found on FB group of women suffering from PCOS, unfortunately my case is one of the most difficult, but still I'm not single in struggling it.

    I feel most miserable in the mornings when I do realize that in fact nothing has gradually changed.

    I'm afraid I'm on the way of developing agoraphobia. I'm afraid to get out and find new work as I fear I'm going meet some of my ex-colleagues or neighbours that remember me looking differently. I'm afraid of their comments, personal indelicate questions, just can't cope with it now.

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    I understand that. There's a 25th school anniversary event happening that I've been invited to. I'm not going because in not who I used to be and my life has not turned out how everyone expected. It's silly really, because I like my life, but I want them to remember me how I was.

    Look up Simply Bekini - none of us have perfect bodies, but they do an amazing job every single day in keeping us going, in processing everything we do to it, in getting us to jobs, or out with friends, or just cleaning the house! Enjoy your body, you're not getting another one
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Yes, but that's really difficult.

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    Oh yes, it's really really hard, but it is something to work on...
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Quote Originally Posted by selena View Post
    Yes, but that's really difficult.
    Yep .....
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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