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    I don't think its appropriate for her to buy you gifts, what do you think?

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    I agree with you and I earlier told her my point of view. She said that she bought 9 phones for office and one was freely offered. But I suppose it's her try to make me stay at her office. The work is nervous and many have resigned.

    I decided to keep it packed and not to use, so that I could give it back to her. She has made this when the others were present, and I was feeling very confused when she said she doesn't expect any refuse.

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    I don't think I'd be comfortable with her giving such a gift either...
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    I don't know what other surprises expect from her part.

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    Today is the end of the week and I'm literally dead on my feet. I am very tired and not very happy about new job.

    Tomorrow I'll have promised training with my director. I'm nervous because she could try to impose her opinion like having her clown hair colour ( I respect others' choices, but I don't impose mines either). And I'm nervous because I don't know how to reply and argue. I don't know if I'm supposed to do cleaning, because this is not my official duty that will be paid.

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    You don't need to argue, just say "no" or something. Do you have a written job description? Then check it and you can then keep referring back to it.
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    ^^^ wss
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    Yes, I do, but I am afraid she is always ready to built new meanings.

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    Ask her to write it all down lovely...
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    Today she has promised to answer my questions and train me. More or less, but she did it. Director did not impose her hair style choices and asked me about my impressions, I sincerely told her that I'm still not sure and I want my rights respected.

    On site she never mentioned cleaning as one my obbligations. But she said I'm supposed to do cleaning once a week but I won't be paid for this separately. She said that's nothing difficult in brooming and washing floors and some brushing. I've said that I won't wash windows because I'm not paid for this and I've never washed such big windows.

    At the end she said that she has done a lot for me. I'm still not officially working for this company, so just have to decide by the end of the month or a little later.

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