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    Could you not freelance for your company and pick and choose what you want to work on?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Yes, even freelance with my company would be ok.

    I'm feeling so suicidal, yes, I'm considered as a good translator, but otherwise I'm feeling like a failure.

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    You aren't a failure at all! I really think you need to get out of that toxic environment lovely..
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    But who am I, if no man really loved me?
    Maybe grandpa.
    My dad has never truly cared about me, my stepdad has made sexual advances towards me (thank God he never did anything!). Then I'm either cursed, or abnormal.

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    Why do you feel you need a man to give you self worth?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I think I just need someone's love, feeling that someone shares even a small part of my feelings.

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    Selena you're a highly intelligent young woman and a truly beautiful person, yes it would be nice if you had someone to share your life but being single doesn't make you any less of a person. Not all relationships are like fairy tales and being single does have its advantages in that you can do what you want when you want.
    77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"

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    I've started thinking about more socialising, maybe yoga.

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    Mike, thank you so much for such nice and encouraging words.

    I also faiiled with the men I tried to build up a relationship. It is heart breaking now.

    There are mixed feelings of guiltness and being manipulated with my mom. Now she came to have more communication with her friends.
    Of course, she maybe wants me to be with the best man in her view. And in fact it's my stupid fantasy.
    But it deeply hurt me when she told me: " I pray that you will not be with X and may he find someone else".

    And then I failed since the beginning. Mother is one and dearest person, but a colleague told me this:" It's not about her, but if you are willing that everything shall be ok next time, just don't tell her anything until it becomes really serious".

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    All of my relationships ‘failed’, until I fell in love with my husband. Those failures showed me how special my relationship with Si is and I might not have realised that without those past relationships. The most important thing I learned was that I did not have to rely on a man to provide self worth - poor self worth can actually trap us in bad relationships and sabotage new relationships. Without loving ourselves, how can we truly expect someone else to love us?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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