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    Or maybe her cancer doctors could talk her into talking to someone?
    Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.

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    Maybe it can be sorted out with the doctors, I should meet them first.

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    She shouldn't say such things to her daughter, you are beautiful as you are Selena
    71 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"

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    Thanks, Mike.
    She doesn't question my physical features, mostly my other features or she has fears, inner struggles.

    She said she doesn't need any psychologist as she trusts in God.

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    Then maybe she should try to be a better person and not say such nasty things to you....
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    We apparently had a good time in the evening, I;ve made some skype photos while talking to a friend. But she later started crying.
    and I was on the edge too. She felt worse and maybe will go to her surgeon for consultation.

    I'm very anxious, studied some forums with this rare form of cancer. It's hard but I hope we'll sort out from this.

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    You're both under a lot of stress, hunni, and you're going to both be on edge and tearful. That's to be expected. Which is why you've got to try to be kind to each other and yourselves. Maybe seeing her doctor will be helpful for your mum, I'm sure you both have more questions now that you've had time to think about it all
    Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.

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    I'm concerned about you in all this love. You are so worried about everything all of the time. Knowledge is useful, but don't over research and make things seem worse than they are...
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    My Mom feels better, she started cooking somethinbg light (in my absence!) and is very willing to do something.

    But recovery process is slow, she is very skinny yet and experiences some difficulties too.
    She respects recommendations generally and stays at home.

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    That's good to hear. She's eating, she's listening to what she's told to do and she's improving. All these will help her,in the fight ahead.

    Are you eating? Getting rest? Looking after yourself?
    Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.

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