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    All positive with mum and grandma then? Are you looking after yourself? Are you getting any rest?
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    It's all going OK then lovely?
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    Not quite and I barely could have any rest.

    Today I have been all day long on the roads. My mom experienced a few problems.

    My anxiety has grown also because my boss's pressure (although she agreed in the end to give me less work now) and my mom is depressed too but she refuses any professional help. I don't know what to say. She told that she would die if I didn't listen to her, that I'm not an obedient daughter, that I'm not a good Christian willing to go regularly to church, that I've already buried her! I understand the reason and I'm deeply hurt, all this because of this f...illness, but I don't agree with some of her statements, nor does she in the depth of her soul, I'm sure.

    She also refuses any professional help with grandma. She is very stubborn.

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    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Selena she shouldn't be saying such horrid and hurtful things to you. She's completely wrong. You are perfect as you are.
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    She calmed down anyway and I hope the things will improve further.
    If she accepts psychological assistance, it would be much easier, but that's unlikely.

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    Sweetheart don't listen to her nonsense. Maybe tell her that if she can't say something nice or supportive then maybe she could keep those comments to herself. You are doing more than enough right now.
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    She actually said in the end some nice things and thanked me, but she obstinately refuses any professional psychological assistance.

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    Could you get them to come out and meet her?
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