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    Oh hunni....
    With regard to your Mum - sweetheart if it is cancer, then I'm sure that the Drs will do all they can. But you are not useless. How do you think you should be coping?
    If you are feeling suicidal then please get proper help asap.

    Wrt your boss - hunni, talk to her. How much time do you want her to give you off?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Two weeks, it was my legal leave actually.

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    Then talk to her and remind her it's your legal leave if you have to. Just ask her nicely to start with..
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Thanks for suggestion, after all, I'm not guilty that people left her after a while since they had started working.

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    Exactly.. Just talk to her. You've been able to reason with her previously about other things.
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    . Hunni, your MH problems do not make you useless. You've been looking after your mum and grandmother successfully over the past few very difficult months - there's no reason why you can't continue to do so. Just be yourself, show your mum you love her. That'll be all she needs from you
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Thank you for nice words.

    I've been to hospital again, maybe she will be released in a couple of days.

    Her room mates are fine, and very friendly. There are no results of biopsy yet, but we discussed even joked that whatever the diagnosis will be, we'll see what to do and try to fight.

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    Wow, released so soon? She must be doing really well lovely..
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    Yes, doctor said for her condition and serious surgery is not bad at all.

    But the cancer question still remains unsorted...

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    When will you know?

    You're doing amazingly well you know coping with this..
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