Online from H?
Online from H?
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What pressure online? From the dating sites? Sweetheart, just don't even open those sites, give yourself a break.
Home? From your Mum? That's not so easy to solve, but all you can do is keep talking to her..
Your boss? Either stand up and say "no" or look for another job....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Yes, but mainly in real life, also a jealous colleague who tries to hurt others.
I'm sorry, I don't understand. You said pressure from online, but now you are saying in real life... Which is the biggest problem? What about real life in detail?Originally Posted by selena
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I think I've just burnt out.
The biggest problem is in real life:at work and at home.
Selena, you are all over the place when you tell us about what is bothering you. Let's start with work.What are the biggest problems at work?
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I agree, let's break it down to smaller specifics....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I'm sorry, I was simply destroyed yesterday.
So, here how it goes:
1. My boss would prefer me to work till autumn, I'm already burnt out. Most of my colleagues are nice, but there are two nasty people. A woman who actually did google translations and we never complained on her, giving her another chance, tries to compromise other colleagues, including myself. I'm fed up with these lies (that I did something wrong or told something wrong and many nasty things). There is also a vulgar man who tried to approach me, but it was harrasment, I didn't tell anything, but he insists again when he sees me.
2. At home not very calm atmosphere. My mum is basically against H.
3. H. gets more distant and finally he told me:" Do what you want, I don't like your manner of behaviour". What is he talking about? I apologized enough, if he copes with difficulties, I could have been very supportive. Where did I go wrong? Or I'm the hysterical woman, while he is the busy and really tired man?
4. My own issues as well as photo session tomorrow, organized by my boss. An additional stress.
On a good side, my boss made for me and my colleagues personalized business card and I cope well with customers and nobody complained on my translations, although some jealous people from company tried to criticize my work without any reason in front of my boss. The thing is that many people turned down their translations and now these 2 are jealous, but I never criticized them and I'm always only for constructive criticism. I feel such a crazy loser, like I cannot stand up for my interests.
1. Tell your boss you're entitled to a holiday and you're going to take it. End of. Ignore the bitches - there are always some in a office. The man - make a note of what he says and when he says it, for evidence. Then tell him you'll call the police if he does it again. That's work sorted
2. Your mum is against H. She's right. Tell her that.
3. H is an arsehole. Get rid of him. And you've done a photo session once, you can do it again.
If people are commenting to your boss, tell them they're unreasonable and, if your boss or customers have a problem with your work, you will talk to your boss then,
Sorted
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Thank you, Paula, I'll think over it.
There are actually two people who do this sort of things against me and others. Our team is generally friendly and nice. Neither my boss nor any customer had any problems with my work so far.
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