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    Sweetheart your Mum always jumps to the worst case scenario and makes things out to be 100 times worse than they really are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by selena View Post
    Rather high insuline rezistance, but doctor calmed me that it could be corrected, it was also due to the last stress.

    My mom found out the results and already supposed horrible diseases, although the doc said that's due to PCOS and nothing related.

    "It's losing just a battle, not a war" - said he.
    That's what I was developing (started about 10 years ago) but a change in life style and cutting down on sugar has changed that where as 10 years ago I was verging on being type 2 diabetic, I'm now in the normal range. So Selina you should be able to manage your insulin resistance (basically you're making enough insulin but your cells can't use it like they should).
    77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"

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    Are you having a nice Saturday?

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    Yes, Mike, that's very good and I'm happy for you overcoming this problem. I hope I'll be able to make this possible too by following appropriate treatment. I wonder about the reasons as I've always apparently eaten normally, my mom was more of a sweet tooth but she has never put weight either. He said it might be related to physical or psychological trauma occasionally, but in fact there is no need to search for causes in the past, but to follow instead right steps from now on.

    magie06, yes, a quiet but rather nice day.

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    For some people, it just happens. My dad is the healthiest person I know but he’s in the same boat.
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Yes, sincerely I have taken only valium in the most anxious recent times and nothing else.

    Sometimes I think the reason behind my failure of finding genuine life partner so far is due to my anxiety and physical problems. It might not be exactly true but once friendship starts developping into something more I'm a bit afraid of what comes next.

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    Maybe you need to spend time getting to see the specialists - you keep saying you are going to see a specialist counsellor and you haven't done that. I worry that you are trying to find love when you really need to focus on you and getting you more stable and happier and stop listening to your Mum saying nasty things...
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    I'll see them.

    Now I'm feeling so bad, I'm missing my only spiritual mentor and unprofessional psychologist - a priest of Orthodox Church and my confessor for some years.

    He is such a kind person and he always was kind to my mom and me, he always insisted on more caring about me and receiving professional help.

    Now I cannot get in touch with him as he went abroad and probably a period of spiritual silence.

    Missing him so much...

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    Is there anyone else you could be talking to?
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    It's a little bit hard to find someone suitable.

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