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Hi ladies.
We had an enjoyable evening last night (I felt a bit calmer) The doctor was lovely, as always, meds to stay the same for now.
I hear what you are saying about the job Suzi but I need to prove it to myself that I can earn money in readyness for when my maintenance stops. My plan is to save as much as possible before then. The job is very demanding physically but I am determined to give it a really good shot.xx
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I get what you’re saying about money but I’ll just say what I told my eldest daughter the other day (when her boyfriend was worried about his potential short term drop in income). When you’re in a committed relationship, and living together, it shouldn’t be about ‘your’ money and ‘their’ money - you’re in this together
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I completely agree with Paula... I'd also ask if it's worth your mental health as you haven't seemed stable since you started it lovely....
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I agree wholeheartedly with what Paula and Suzi have said, in days gone by in a relationship it was my money and your money, thankfully things have changed and it is our money it's a partnership. Maybe you need a less demanding job, just a thought.
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Thank you for your comments. It is wonderful to be cared about. I have a probation period at work of 12 weeks and I must make it as far as that, if not beyond. The winter will be over then and my energy levels tend to go up. In the meantime I will continue to chat to you all on here (sometimes I have a tendency to feel I must go quiet which I know is unnecessary) x
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Definitely no need to go quiet lovely, talk and talk and share what's going on in your head.
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You are so kind. I suppose I am always try to please all the people all the time (Although my rational brain knows that this is impossible) I just feel very low atm. I said to Pen that I wish it was possible for me to see inside my brain, to prove that the depression is really there (and I am not making this up) x
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We absolutely know it’s real, and you’re not making anything up.
Hunni, what is the reason you have to work?
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There are studies that show that depression creates physical changes in the brain and that brain activity is different too!