That was my suggestion, purely to let them get to know me better. She moved her partner in really quickly and they're still not sure of him. I'm not putting them through that with me
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But I think that you and he are very, very different. You are nurturing, kind, caring, lovely, and approachable and stable. He, from what you've said, is short tempered and not nice at all! Why not make a thing of it together in half term? :)
I think it's us wanting to give him time to get used to the idea and give him chance to get to know me better and also give my parents chance to adjust to me not being here. It gives me time to go through my stuff too.
Fair enough - I wasn't meaning to second guess you or to push you, was just wondering as you seem so much more settled when you are there....
I am. I work a lot better there too. I don't want to push it too quickly with the children though, and if I gradually spend more time there, they'll be used to me being there by April.
Fair point lovely...
Both sets of parents know. His parents seem really pleased, his mum said it will be like her birthday present. My parents haven't said as much. My dad said nothing at all and my mum said she was expecting it and it was ok for me to stay Wednesdays until I can drive. That was it. I got a snotty comment a little later about packing when I was sorting some stuff out in my room. That's it.
Oh, I'm sorry lovely. You deserve more than that.....
I can't say I'm that surprised
It must hurt?