Yup! It normally is!
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Yup! It normally is!
I've come up to do uni work. I clearly said that was what I was doing before I came upstairs. Yet my mother has just come up to ask if J enjoyed himself last night, even though she asked him before he left!!! :@
Sorry, hun, that made me giggle. Though, without wanting to upset you, and I know you do understandably struggle with your personal space being violated, there are many times when I wish my mum could follow me around the house .....
You haven't upser me. It's very different for you, they've lived so far away for a long time so you've not been able to see them often so I completely understand that. My room is the only space I have to call my own and at the moment, it feels like I haven't even got that
I assume you've talked to her about it?
I've tried but she just immediately takes offence so I give up. I need to face that I either need to try and deal with it until J is ready for me to move in, and god knows when that will happen; or try and get my own place.
Have you thought about a house share until J is ready?
I don't think that would be good for my mental health. I think it would end in me isolating myself even more then I do now. I struggle to get to know people in person. I've looked at prices in Hull anyway and I would have to top up the payment, even on HB, the house shares I've seen are £80+ a week. Add in the bills I have and food and I wouldn't be able to afford it and driving lessons would have to be cancelled completely until I could find work and I'm not sure I'm ready for that yet.
I just need to deal with it, just like I need to deal with a lot of things
Oh hunni (panda)(panda)
In other news, had to deal with Cruella going out for tea with J and the children. It's A's birthday and T asked if she could go and I've always said that I won't object to them doing things together for the children with things like their birthdays but it's bloody hard.
Oh and I have a driving lesson tomorrow.