OK.... When do you see J next?
What did you decide about your driving?
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OK.... When do you see J next?
What did you decide about your driving?
I've talked it through with J and my brother. They both think it's a very negative way of teaching, especially considering that I've explained about my anxiety. J's friend has recommended an instructor and I've seen another that has good reviews too so going to look into it further
I'm really, really pleased that you're making that decision.
That’s great, Jaq. You definitely need to look at another instructor.
I'm hating lessons. And despite saying that she won't force me to do anything I'm not comfortable with, she's making me do something I'm not comfortable with. Yet I feel bad for looking at other instructors
No need to feel bad, you’re paying for this so it has to be what’s right for you. Katie had 3 instructors in the end
I've got a message typed up but struggling to send it...
Do you want to put it up here first? Has J seen it?
He thinks I should send it
"Hi, I'm looking for another instructor and have been recommended Bob by a friend. I started lessons with another instructor at the beginning of December, tomorrow will be my 7th, and to be honest, I'm dreading it and haven't looked forward to lessons for weeks. I'm a very nervous person and have severe depression and anxiety. My current instructor is aware of this but I don't think they're taking this into account. It's taking me a while to pick things up and I'm frequently being told that I'll fail my test for certain things yet I'm struggling to fully get to grips with the basics, stopping and starting is an issue for me at the moment and their teaching style has my confidence at zero and it's causing my anxiety, which has been managed since summer, to become an issue again. I'm wondering if it would be possible to start lessons with you?"
Send it.
Are you going on the lesson tomorrow?