So why are you and J waiting?
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So why are you and J waiting?
I don't know. Ultimately it's up to him when he tells them
True.... I think he's mad keeping you from them, but that's just my pov as I know you're so perfect for them.
I'll just have to see what happens
Yup.... (bear)
It is his decision, but you do have a say too - this is a massive thing in your life and your future. You shouldn’t be shut out of it ....
You're right but when have I ever bothered much about myself?
I think this needs to be the time ......
I agree. You need to be talking to him about this. You are important and you need to put you first. What do YOU want in this?
I would like for them to know about me before Christmas. She wants to introduce them to her new guy when they've been together 3 months... if she thinks that's acceptable then why shouldn't they know about me?
And it hurts that he feels some upset about her moving on. I understand it but it still hurts.