I have blood tests today, seeing J tomorrow although he will make me rest!!! The rest of the week nothing, so I will try
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I have blood tests today, seeing J tomorrow although he will make me rest!!! The rest of the week nothing, so I will try
How's today been?
Been for my bloods taking, finally confessed to my mum about monday to be met with the expected drama, and had a chat with J on the phone :) not too bad so far but I'm tired!!!!
What drama did you get?
A very positive and awesome first post Jaq (bear) (panda)
What??? Why do you have to have that done??? Have you heard this???? (To my dad) When did you find out???? Why didn't you tell us????
To be perfectly honest, because it's no ones business but my own (though J is claiming the brownie points for persuading me to go in the first place ^)), it's not a huge deal but I knew she would react like that, and because I didn't want her getting on the phone and telling every Tom, Dick and Harry!!! Which she does as I knew when my sister had to go for one.
Honestly, lovely, if I’d had that same conversation with Katie, I’m not sure I wouldn’t have reacted the same. Doesn’t matter how old they are, our children will always be our babies and we’ll always worry about them
I know what Paula means....if mums and co are kept out of the loop a 'reaction' is what you can expect. Years ago I was due to be sterilised so didn't want to advertise it and worry mum and dad and the rest of the family...well! you don't do you?....I mentioned it to a friend of my mother in passing...blah..blah..blah..and the phone never stopped ringing! Exactly the same response you had....if anything had happened to me under anaesthetic ...I never thought of that.
However, I'm so pleased that life and love are being kind to you. You'll make an amazing counsellor. You're astute and clever and kind...and if you've 'been there, done that, and got the Tee shirt and the mug'....it will be even more helpful to people. You'll be a natural. Good luck!;)
I'm delighted that you had your bloods done. I hope you've not had a bruise. Last time I actually didn't bruise - I actually haven't had the results of the last bloods yet. Probably stuck in the Christmas post.
I think I'd have wanted to know too.... Sorry love....
Did you ever ask J to go with you?