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If he’s feeling anything like I did, it’s not about not bothering to reassure you, it may not be intentional. When I’m ill I can’t cope with emotionally charged conversations, at all. So the easiest way round that is avoidance - keep quiet and hope the conversation is over quickly itms
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Marc and I have been together for almost 19 years. We've had good times and bad times, but it's about getting the help and working through things together.
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Yeah you're probably both right.. It's just so lonely even sitting watching a film together.. He's got his back to me in a corner whereas normally we would be cuddled up together.. I feel bad for even wanting one and I certainly don't feel it's okay to get one.
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He said today that he feels lovely despite everyone being around him. He's being very negative and thinking he won't get better, calling himself broken and asking why I love a broken man. I've told him to start forcing himself to be positive and pinch himself when he is being negative.
I am not sure what else to suggest..? Or try.
I ask how I can help and he says he doesn't know, just that he feels nothing at all.
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When's his next Drs appointment? Can you go with him? I really think he needs to see them...
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It's the 6th April... He doesn't want me to go with him.. I've offered plenty of times and he's always said that he doesn't feel comfortable.....
He has a telephone assessment for therapy today... I hope that goes well..
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That previous post was meant to say lonely not lovely
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How did the call go, do you know?
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It's fine to ask him how it went...
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He missed the call.. So will have to reschedule it on Tuesday after the bank holiday...