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All I get told when I say they could actually help every now and again is they have their own life, he works full time, she works part time and has Scarlett, so they can't really expect it of them. Pretty much feels like I'm the unemployed and childless one so it all falls to me
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You’re not unemployed, you’re too ill to work at the moment (though you’re working on that). There’s a big difference
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Erm, you're a student, ill and a carer all rolled into one - any one of those alone is enough.....
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Just been asked by my mum about her new meds which I've explained 4 times now in 4 days. Got called an arsey c*** by by dad and how he's sick of me treating her like (swear)(swear)(swear)(swear). I do pretty much everything for her with no consideration for my own health. I have them going on at me when I can't cope with people talking to me and have to just accept it. I get interrupted all the time when I am trying to study. Yet I get told I'm treating her like (swear)(swear)(swear)(swear) because I'm a bit snappy at the moment. My sister can have a go at her all the time, is arsey with her all the time, but I forgot that the favourite child is allowed to do that. Nothing is ever said to her, or my brother. I forgot I don't really count and never really have. My dad talks to her as if she's something he's just stood in half the time and that's ok. Me being a little snappy because I'm struggling and fed up of having to explain things repeatedly isn't allowed.
I hate it here. I don't want to be here anymore. I hate having to come back here. I hate having to live here. I hate being taken for granted. I hate seeing how little I matter. I hate being treated like a child. But I have to accept it as I have nowhere else to go
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That's horrible! How dare he call you something like that!
Sweetheart I'm so sorry.... You don't deserve to be spoken to like that at all. You are far more than they are treating you. If I had anywhere you could stay you could come to me....
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I wish I had room for you here babe as am only an hour by car from you x
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Thank you both.
Suzi, it's not the first time he's called me that. This time I walked out of the room after telling him I must have learnt it from him then. I have no idea when I get to escape either as all J says about telling the children is to trust him and it has to be the right time for them. I understand that but it doesn't make things any easier, especially knowing what he's like.
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My mum and dad never spoke to me like that in all the years I lived with them. I'm not surprised you would rather live somewhere else. Unfortunately I've no advice to offer and the sooner J tells the children about you the better.
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Sweetheart, I know there’s all sorts of factors but maybe you need to be pushing J more. You need to put yourself high on that list of priorities, you deserve better from everyone involved .....
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I don't see it because I've never really had it. Part of me is wondering if my dad is part of the reason why I jumped into things with dickhead so quickly. It was all pretty normalised to be spoken to like dirt on a shoe as that's how my dad was talking to ky mum half the time.