Are you OK? Are you home because he's having the children?
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Are you OK? Are you home because he's having the children?
Yes. He's taking them away for a few days over half term. He's currently trying to decide when it will be the right time to tell them about me.
I'm ok mostly. I just hate coming back when I've had a few days with him. I feel like I'm home when I'm there. He noticed that as soon as we got back into Hull I started fiddling with my ring splint as my anxiety levels started creeping up. It's just something I have to deal with as best as I can
Oh love.. (panda) I'm glad that he's working on when he's going to talk to the children. Hopefully he'll do it really soon.....
I have no idea and it's the not knowing that gets to me most as I feel completely out of control. On top of that, it's TOTM, my mum has rang me 3 times today about her meds, they've both not stopped wittering at me since they got back from my sisters so I'm struggling a bit today.
Maybe he’ll find the right time while he’s away with them. Big hugs, lovely
Why has she called you three times about her meds? Couldn't your sister help?
Hope that he manages to do it soon lovely....
She got given a last minute appointment with the podiatrist (me who asked for the referral as she hadn't despite me telling her she needed it for the last year and a bit...) and she needed a list of her medication for him. I've told her before to keep a copy of her repeat slips in her bag for this very reason. I texted her a list, and bearing in mind she's on 46 tablets a day, you can imagine how long that took me... She then rang me back as she thought I'd missed things off... She then rang me this afternoon asking if I'd put her prescription in as the chemist couldn't find it. It was put in (and issued) on Friday and the chemist still didn't have it all so I've had to give her a strip of my hydroxychloroquine. I've had to sort out all her meds tonight. Had my dad going on about his fish tank, my mum asking lots of questions like did I enjoy my time away from them, did we have any trouble from her etc. My brother will take my mum to some appointments if she can't drive afterwards as I don't feel confident enough/aren't allowed to drive her car, but other then that, I get no other help from either my brother or sister.
I just want to be back in Cherry with J. I feel peaceful there and so at home there and so much happier.
Oh hunni I'm sorry you have so little help from everyone.... Although I feel that my little sister gets dumped with all my Mum's cr(p too....
It's what I'm used to
Doesn't make it right though