That suggests the more honest answer would be "no, not really as I don't want to make things hard for J"....
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That suggests the more honest answer would be "no, not really as I don't want to make things hard for J"....
I’ve noticed you’re only talking about uni stuff, when we know there’s an awful lot more going on than that.....
Am I the problem? I’ve stay out of the way of your thread if it helps you to talk.
I know but I’m not exactly the most tactful person at times and I don’t want you to not talk about it cos you’re worried I’ll dive in with my size 8s.
I'm good at not talking. J has tried grassing me up to my mum and she told him I was a pain in the arse for it!
But is J good at making it so you do talk?
I tend to just shut down when I don't want to talk about something
But hunni, you're in a partnership. Would you just leave it if you knew he was hurting but not talking?
He knows what the issue is. What can he do about it? Other than keep trying to make me talk about it which just makes me cry. Or am I supposed to keep going over and over something I find incredibly painful?