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I don't even know anymore. I was making plans to get things done that were getting me down, next thing he stormed out.
When he came back he said I make him feel useless because I was asking other people to do the jobs. I asked him if he had the time, energy or inclination to do the jobs. He said no.
I said I was sorry if it made him feel useless but I'm trying to do something to make the place look better then I lost my rag and yelled he could do the damn jobs then. but something inside me died. He came later and said sorry. I said sorry for losing my temper but something has gone. I am completely shut down.
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Oh sweetheart, I’m sorry, though it’s always horrible arguing with your partner and especially so when you’re already struggling. A loves you and this will blow over - you just both need to give each other some time to cool down and then talk about it. You’re not shut down, lovely, otherwise you wouldn’t care about feeling ‘numb’.
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I completely agree. Right now you are both hurting. Maybe give it some time and then try sitting down just you and talk?
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Hi, lovely, how are you doing?
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Just leaving these here for you (bear) (panda)
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Just saying hi and letting you all know I'm doing a bit better. Hopefully normal service will resume shortly(nod)
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Thanks for checking in xx