It’s more than I’ve done today - you never give yourself credit, lovely ......
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It’s more than I’ve done today - you never give yourself credit, lovely ......
Sounds productive.... I've done little to nothing. Maybe I should go clean
I’ve been pretty lazy today. There is so much stuff that needs to be done I should be making more of an effort to get in front of it all. I need help to organise things cos I’m not good at it. I like to keep everything close at hand so my house gets soo cluttered it’s unreal. I have too much stuff but I don’t like letting it go either.
You haven’t been lazy. Pacing is not being lazy
Oh yes, I have been lazy. Tons of stuff I couldn’t done but I just looked at it and said “nah”.
Well you inspired me to go clean the upstairs loo and wash basin...... I even gave the window a rub.
Would you say that I'd been lazy if I'd done what you've done today?
Or what if I told you I've helped load the dishwasher, done some crochet, played the piano and sat outside trying to help Marc by "positively encouraging" him...
I’d say there is a huge difference between you being a mum and wife with physical pain and me as an able bodied single woman with no dependents. Plus it’s not a competition. I know I was capably of doing more today but I actively chose not too. I’m not being hard on myself I’m just being honest.
You always hold yourself to a far higher standard than you do the rest of us. I don’t understand why but I do know you’re wrong in that. You’re not lazy, I’ve never known you to be lazy. But I do wonder if it’s more that you can stave off the dark thoughts if you’re constantly doing things?
I completely agree with Paula. I do worry why you think you have to be doing more, or that nothing you ever do is good enough.... You ARE more than good enough...