Getting used to it is a shame. Nobody should treat a close family member that way. I think its nasty and disrespectful. Even more so since you are such a good person.
I hate when these things happen.
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Getting used to it is a shame. Nobody should treat a close family member that way. I think its nasty and disrespectful. Even more so since you are such a good person.
I hate when these things happen.
(bear) I'm sorry lovely....
Hey you, its way to silent. How are you doing?
I'm struggling a little, have been for a while
Do you want to talk about it?
I think everything has got on top of me. J is worried I'm getting ill again but I'm able to shower every day still and that's a big indicator with me. When I can't be bothered to do that then I'm really struggling
Ok so its good that you have that. I hope you are taking extra care of yourself at the moment. We do want you to feel as good as possible (panda)
When you say everything, what’s the biggest stress atm?
Uni I think. Followed by living here, not knowing when I'm meeting the children (he's looking at the 14th, he only has one day off this weekend and is at Abbie's dance show), learning to drive, well... mainly me measuring myself against others, and today I'm tired and have sharp shooting pains up my forearm. My parents bought Talia a pack of treats and they've gone straight through her. 3am I was up cleaning up after her and stripping her bedding. Then again at 6am as she needed to go out...
Would it help to put off your next driving lesson to take that pressure off? What are you comparing yourself to?
As to when you’re meeting the kids, while I think it’s important that you meet hem sooner rather than later now they know about you, try to remember that, up to last week, a meeting wasn’t even on the cards. Things are moving, lovely
Uni - I know you’ve got a plan of what you’re doing when, and I’m willing to bet you’re actually doing ok time wise, but if it gets too much please contact the uni to get extensions. They already know you may need a little more time but they will only be able to help you if they know what’s going on
Living there - the ends in sight (bear)