So my dad has guessed about me and J...
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So my dad has guessed about me and J...
and.....
He's not said anything to me personally. He came round tonight and my mum told him he was staying for tea. My dad saw how we were together and when we came back up to carry on watching our film, he said to my mum "I thought there was nothing going on between them?". She's played dumb but it doesn't sound like my dad is buying it
Is it a problem if he knows?
No, it's only a problem if he tries to do the overprotective father thing. We're very relaxed and at ease around each other and instinctively affectionate, we don't always realise we're doing it, and that's what my dad has picked up on.
Every father does the overprotective father thing. My dad still hasn’t forgiven Katie’s dad, 20 years on .....
Why haven’t you told him before this?
Because I don't trust his temper. J is the only man I have ever felt completely safe with, and I mean the ONLY man.
Is it not better to tell him? I mean if he’s already guessed? If you and J are that relaxed with each other then surely he can say that J isn’t going to hurt you.
I'm sorry lovely. You and J deserve to be so happy and away from all the negativity!