Unfortunately illusions seldom change into something real.
The last month the feeling of loneliness has left me empy.
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Unfortunately illusions seldom change into something real.
The last month the feeling of loneliness has left me empy.
Hunni, illusions are just that. Illusions. They're not real. If you're waiting for an illusion to become a reality, you'll be waiting a long time. What you need to be looking for is a real future, one that is solid
She's right you know....
Today I'm working at home because I've got a cold, I'm not feeling well and it's so hard to work.
And I have two kinds of news: good and bad.
Two apparently serious guys contacted me via email. But here comes the mess.
I've found that my friend registered me on dating site without my permission. And she put my photo.
That's not the worst, because I've already registered on other dating sites. The thing is that she wrote that I'm currently spending my time " between Paris and London". Who asked her to do this thing? It is not true. I've contacted some of administrators, he said that this feature could be changed only by person who paid and it's not a problem.
I've liked the men who contacted me, but how can I reply knowing that my friend ruined everything? It's sad, and what could I write? I don't want to appear as a liar.
Hi Selena, although you should have words with your friend adding you without you knowing I wouldn't worry yourself to much over this. As a guy I'd find it in good humour that your friend is helping you along, just be honest and explain what's happened and I'm sure they'll think it rather kind and cute :)
I hope you feel better soon and shake that cold, plenty hot drinks and soup :)
I'd be honest. Talk to your friend and talk to the men involved....
So your 'friend' put your picture on a dating site, paid for the profile, but put your email address on it? Are you not able to change the password, log in and change the details yourself?
I changed password, but I can't change details, the policy is that if you want to change something, you should pay. Profile will be deleted automatically if not paid the next month. And the admin's answer was simple ' it does not matter, discuss everything with men'. In fact she is not a true friend, but that's other matter. She is not mean, just acting spontaneously and without asking others' permission. My mistake is that I've told her about my intentions and she decided to make it better.
First, I wanted not to reply at all or delete my profile. But now I decided to reply and be honest, and then leave if there are no possibilities of changing details.
That sounds like a sensible course of action to me.
That does sound sensible. How are you feeling about it and your friend?