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He has tried to reasure me that even if i get 100% well, he is not going to throw me out. I am very grateful to what my son has done. Even cleaning out my London flat and decoration it so i can rent it out and have a bit of income. I have my money in a Account (just a basic one) and Maxine will sit with me over the week and work out how much i need to spend on things like food, and although i dont pay rent i still pay utility bills and council tax etc. I just realised how much i rely on her in my daily life.
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I have every faith in your ability to deal with your finances and medication yourself, and remember if there is a problem your family is there to support you.
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I think that you'll be able to manage this fine. It's not a case of her just dropping you with it, but I think it'll be good for you.
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My mum has a white board on the side of her fridge and it has a list of what she pays out and what day of the week or month and the amount and where she pays it
so for instance
Mondays water bill, post office £ amount
Tuesday TV licence Post office £ amount
22nd of every month Broadband/phone payed online
30th of every month insurance payed over the phone
These are just examples hun but it may help you to keep track, you could always put a tick by something once payed or done etc to keep track of what is done and what still needs to be done
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I think it's fab you're looking towards this. And I'm sure you've got a home with them as long as you want :)
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At the meal last night my son mentioned the bedbug thing, and said perhaps i was using it as an excuse not to take my own medication. He said i was frightened but he also said that i am a strong person and the fact i went to the football yesterday and enjoyed the experience again, shows i can have the strength to move forward. He told me he is worried that Maxine is struggling a bit, and he wants her to focus on the pregnancy and the birth without any distractions.
I know its a huge ask but later i am going to say that this week i will do my own medication. My son is so worried about Maxine and he is trying to help her, so i think i can help by doing this.
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You can do this lovely, and we'll be supporting you all the way. Well done, sweetheart :)
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I know you can do it too! We are completely behind you waving pompoms
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I know you can do this. Ask for Maxine to supervise for the first day or so, and then there will be no stopping you.
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Hun you can do this you know you can and we know you can :)