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I wouldn't go that far. I know from personal experience how much easier it is to go along with things to avoid arguments when your mental health isn't great. I definitely think he's misguided. Plus T has asked a few times if she can go with them on days out so maybe he genuinely believes it's best for the children. I don't know.
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While I get what you’re saying, protecting your own mental health while potentially confusing and upsetting your children is something I’d struggle justifying
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My disorder makes me go along with everything somebody says. I find it ow so hard to voice my own opinion and do what I want. And you are right. It is much easier to go along with things when you are not at your best mentaly. But there is a downside to it. And that is that at first its easier. But then when it keeps going on it makes things harder and harder. And I don't think there is anything wrong with voicing your opinion about it. Thats what being in a relationship is about.
If things are easy thats one thing. But yesterday you were not ok with it. And thats not good for your mental health either.
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But what about you? What about your mental health? What about the messages his actions are showing you?
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Did you have a good evening?
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You're quiet - is that because I've upset you? I really hope I haven't...
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It was lovely. Talia woke me up about 3am though and I struggled to get back to sleep so tired today.
We went out for lunch Suzi so I've not really had chance to look at the forum
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Glad you had a lovely evening and you you've spent time together today! It's good you haven't been looking at the forum!
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Just been looking over people's posts. I haven't been as active as I should be, so sorry for no input peeps. Jaq...have the divorce wheels been put in motion yet? Or is she dragging her heels? From what I have read, it all sounds a bit unhealthy to me. To some extent I can understand the 'anything for a quiet life' bit, but at some stage, for your well being - and the kids etc - they've got to call it quits and make a sensible split. This could drag on for years! But I hope it doesn't for your sake.