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I'm going to take some ibuprofen and see if that helps.
One of the things is my brother and sister. J came to see me Friday night and he just walks in the house without knocking. My mum told him to just walk in nearly a year ago now but my brother hasn't been here when he's arrived before and was a bit taken aback by it. Instead of sending me a quick text asking why he just walks in, he went to my sister bitching about it, who then took it on herself to stick her nose in and go telling tales to my mum. My mums put her straight but I don't know how much my brother has told her as when my mum asked her what she said to him, it was apparently that she wasn't interested in anyone in my life. I find that incredibly hurtful. She says it's because she tried to take an interest last time and look what happened and this way nothing can go wrong, but she behaved like a spoilt brat last time. She decided she didn't like him and she wasn't going to make even the smallest effort to even be polite. It raised a lot of bad memories, about that, my so-called best friends betrayal. And I'm now wondering if I can even trust my brother.
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I'd be really upset too. That sounds like a horrible situation to be in. Families are so difficult to deal with...
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Everything just seems to have happened at once which is why I have posts all over the forum today.
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I've just told J everything, and I mean everything. I feel better for having done so too. I don't know why I try and hide how I'm feeling from him, he sees through it instantly, I guess part of me is scared he'll decide he's had enough and walk away...
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Well done you!
That’s a massive step you’ve taken. I know how hard it is to open up to someone close.
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(panda) sweetheart. Thank you for being honest with us and J, I know how tough that is for you
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That's awesome! I'm proud of you! What did he say?