Aww that's awesome. Have you told them about issues around moving things etc?
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Aww that's awesome. Have you told them about issues around moving things etc?
What do you think? Lol, of course I haven’t. Amazing how someone as out spoken as me is to chicken when it comes to keeping my cleaners in order.
Why not send them a text? Do they know about the ASD diagnosis? Could that help you to explain it?
Yes they know about my specialness but don’t think they fully understand what that mean for me and tbh I don’t want to explain it. I’m not close enough to them to have that conversation and feel comfortable. I know what you’re going to say and I know already but I feel vulnerable enough having people in my home without pointing out my idiosyncrasies and have to deal with the strange looks that come as a result.
Spent the evening watching darts instead of cleaning the bird cage out so looks like that’s my first job of the morning. It was really nice tonight to have a few members around on the forum at the same time to have a bit of a chat with. I enjoyed it. Maybe we could set aside some time where we can all try to get online together on a regular basis? That would be cool.
I don't know what you thought I was going to say, but you're already doing brilliantly by allowing them in, so baby steps is great after you've made this huge leap.
It would be... Definitely something to think about..
Did you get them cleaned out in the end? What time are they off?
How are you today?
Just cleaning them out now The guy is coming around lunchtime I feel kinda sad that they are going even though they are a pita but it’s one less stress for me. I’m letting them go for free but put up an ad stating a £10 cos it stops people from just taking them when they don’t really want then, and is covers the cost of the food, which there is a lot of, so the new owner gets a bargain. The cage and birds and accessories are all worth about £100 but the birds cost me nothing so not going to profit off them.
I'm sorry that you're feeling sad love. (bear)
(panda)
Of course you'll miss them and it's ok to be sad about it but there will be a sense of relief after as well. (bear)