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OK, why did you cry at housegroup?
What is it that terrifies you about the assessment? I can talk you through what happens and how it's all done if you want? I've been to loads now as I take me for mine, Marc for his, his Mum for hers..... Oh and always claim back the cost of getting there and home again ;)
I cried because I’ve been holding the tension for 2 weeks now. What terrifies me is a combination of stress over actually getting there and coping with the environment, worry about whether I’m going to answer their questions and, mainly, fear that they’ll call me a fraud ......
You are NOT a fraud! I know it's on your mind but talk about it. We're here to listen.
You aren't a fraud. I felt like a fraud, but when you start listing the issues you have and looking at what you can't do - instead of what you can and you know deep down that you aren't. If it doesn't go how it should then you put in a MR, then a tribunal... You can do this.
I can only echo what Suzi and Magie have said, you'll have Si with you to put them straight (bear) (panda)
I've no words of wisdom but always a hug. X(panda)
I got a text from my boss saying she’s off sick so I can’t work tomorrow - I’m not allowed by occ health to do the shift on my own. That doesn’t make me feel good at all but I suppose I shouldn’t feel like a fraud and useless at the same time, right?
Still, it means I get to see mum and dad
Silver lining (panda)
I think right now you seeing your parents is more important anyway... You could do with their extra love and support in person right now...