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darwins_reject
29-03-2007, 05:26 PM
Hello, my name is Marc, i would just like to take the time to say welcome to all the new members on this site.

i have been a moderator on this site since the begining, but as i suffer with deppression myself, i had some time away from here.

here's my story...

At the age of 16 i was diagnosed with Alopecia, and then diagnosed with depression at the age of 23 (medical professionals seem to think my depression my have gone back to my teens). i have worked in the car trade most of my life, apart from when i worked as a supported housing worker, and specialise in mental health, mainly depression, schizophrenia, paranoid schizophrenia, personality disorder, OCD and Bi-polar. I have been with my partner Suzi (smirnoff) for 8 years, and we have 3 beautiful children.

i have been on a number of anti-d's, and been up and down more often then i care to remember, i don't get embarrassed easily, so ask me anything, if i can help i will. i don't know why, but people seem to be afraid to talk about depression, well I'm not!

the other thing i would like to say, is that why is it, that a lot of side effects of depression seem to be secret? when i first started working in mental health, i went on a lot of courses, i was surprised to find how depression can effect you;

eating habits (i have gone a couple of days without eating)
paranoia
excessive sleep
lack of motivation
insomnia
stressed

and these ones, that you wont find in any books;

feeling like you are walking on sponge
feeling sick and dizzy (not unlike sea sickness)
sex drive going from one extreme to the other
every now and then it feels like you "cant think", like your brain has switched off
wanting to be just left alone, for no reason

i could go on for ever, sometimes you have questions, and feel a little awkward to ask, please ask away, its amazing how many traits sufferers of depression share, but just don't know it

im going stop typing, before this becomes a novel :D

suzi
29-03-2007, 05:38 PM
hi and welcome back babe!

seaspirit
29-03-2007, 05:42 PM
Hi Marc nice to meet you.
I haven't really got any questions at the mo but every now and then something pops into my head so will probably have questions in the future.
I totally agree with you about feeling like you are walking on sponge. I have times like that especially just after having a panic attack.

anyway look forward to reading more of your posts grouphug*

jerseygirl
29-03-2007, 06:07 PM
Hi Marc, good to see you on here!!

We have had a few words on MZ previously, look forward to getting to know you a bit better on this one now!

You and Suzi must make a fab couple ~ so supportive!!

I too can relate to that sponge thing - I'm on a really big bouncy one this week - the whole week has gone by without me even noticing it!!

I'm starting CBT on Tuesday so I'm looking forward to getting my life back!!

darwins_reject
30-03-2007, 01:09 PM
good luck with the CBT

jerseygirl
30-03-2007, 04:50 PM
Thanks very much ~ will let you all know how I get on!

darwins_reject
15-04-2007, 08:07 PM
hello people, i need to get back into this place, sorry if i'm drifting in and out, if anyone needs me, and pm's don't work, just get Smirnoff to kick me :)

suzi
15-04-2007, 08:08 PM
ooo im good at kicking him!!!!

Mickylass
16-04-2007, 06:57 AM
Hi Marc
No questions just wanted to say hello.
Is the wanting to be on your own like wanting to run away. I get that on a regular basis, I feel the people around me would be better off if I wasn't around (Not the bad way) it does pass and I haven't run away yet. :)

mummyhill
16-04-2007, 11:12 AM
Hi Marc
Is the wanting to be on your own like wanting to run away. I get that on a regular basis, I feel the people around me would be better off if I wasn't around (Not the bad way) it does pass and I haven't run away yet. :)

Thank god it's not just me. I was begining to think I was going a bit crazy. My FIL gets that he won't get out of bed where as I just want to disapear run away and hide from everyone and everything.

Mickylass
16-04-2007, 11:30 AM
Maybe we could run away and hide together :)

If only someone could stop the world so I could get off, just for a bit, just for a rest

jerseygirl
16-04-2007, 03:05 PM
hello people, i need to get back into this place, sorry if i'm drifting in and out, if anyone needs me, and pm's don't work, just get Smirnoff to kick me :)

Hi Marc,

How's things with you then?? I know there is a lot going on in your life at the mo - hope the two of you are getting through it................xx

Take it easy.........

hurtinghusband
23-04-2007, 09:44 AM
Marc thanks for the introduction and saying what it feels like to have depression, it has me helped understand more and move forward with my wife. if you dont suffer it's so hard to know what to do but nderstanding makes it easier
cheers

rainydays
27-04-2007, 04:27 PM
HI Marc,

Have already had some kind words from Suzi...jerseygirl is right, you two make a great couple

Your descriptions of depression sound earily familiar....good to know I'm not as, ahem, unique (ie. bonkers) as I thought

Thanks foe the terrific post, and hope you're well :)

Vicky XXX