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Hellllooooooooo I’m back! I think this might be the longest amount of time I’ve spent away from the forum since I joined! Missed you all.
But, I needed it. I’ve spent the last few weeks practising what I preach with lots of self care. I’ve spent time with the kids, been out a couple of times, have read 5 books, listened to lots of music and binge watched a few programmes ;)
I’ve also done another exam (92%) and started a new unit of study - Early Church History, which is fascinating
I’ve also booked to go and stay with my parents at the end of June for a few days. So, as practise for the drive and ferry, Si and I went to a garden centre 40 mins away from us, I drove both ways and we shopped for about an hour. I managed it though did sleep most of the afternoon lol
My mood swings are still there though but I saw the surgery nurse last week (my first time at this surgery), she took bloods and I’m waiting for a call from the doctor today with results. This is the one time I want the results to show an issue as I want there to be an easily resolved issue causing the mood swings.
Yay welcome back, I am glad you have taken the time you need. Also well done on the drive and booking some time away.
I totally understand where your coming from with the results, hope you get some answers xx
Jaquaia
04-05-21, 01:17 PM
Good to see you back! Well done you on everything!
Had my blood results back. I’m not menopausal but.... my thyroid is low, my glucose is low and I’m dehydrated. We’re putting my thyroxine up by 50%, and bloods to be repeated in 6-8 weeks.
Stella180
04-05-21, 02:37 PM
Oh! That’s not good. So you’re going to get regular reminders to drink throughout the day and eat at regular intervals
Hello gorgeous, good to see you!
Glad that the results have shown something and that you can try a relatively simple trial to fix it..
I'm glad that you have an answer sweetie x
Strugglingmum
04-05-21, 03:27 PM
Nice to see you back. I'm glad you have some answers.
Oh! That’s not good. So you’re going to get regular reminders to drink throughout the day and eat at regular intervals
But I do! I drink about 4l a day, have breakfast, lunch and dinner and at least 1 snack every day!
Stella180
04-05-21, 04:55 PM
so care to explain how you could be dehydrated?
Very high doses of amitriptyline....
Stella180
04-05-21, 07:44 PM
interesting.
Really lovely to see you back Paula.
Ami causes dehydration? That makes things make sense for me too...
Stella180
05-05-21, 10:09 AM
Why interesting?
That you can drink 4 ltrs of water a day and ami literally sucks it up. I don’t know how you manage to drink that much and to still be left dehydrated due to a medication is rough.
Ami causes dehydration? That makes things make sense for me too...
Big time. Apparently it’s the reason my gums are not great as I produce very little saliva, and the reason I have to take eye drops every day
That explains my gums and eyes too. Thanks lovely.
OldMike
05-05-21, 02:17 PM
Good to see you back Paula (panda)
Well, as requested by the doctor, I’ve been upping my fluid intake. Thursday I had 4.5l, yesterday 5l. Is it possible to drown that way??? I never realised how hard it is to drink that much lol.
It’s been a long, long time since my thyroid was as low as it is (not since I had to have the radioactive iodine treatment that destroyed my thyroid) - I’d forgotten, but apparently it could take up to 6 weeks for the change in dose to make a change in the symptoms. Looking back, I should have realised there was an issue - low mood, cold all the time, struggling not to gain weight, dry skin, damaged nails, exhausted, aching. I mean, duh!
Oh sweetheart, dont be hard on yourself, as you said its been a long time since you had any of those symptoms so your bound to forget, things happen in between that are at the front of your mind.Please pace and look after you x
Stella180
08-05-21, 10:37 AM
Hey tbf all of these symptoms could’ve been caused by different things too. When you’ve been taking your meds daily you’d thing it was alright. Anyway it’s getting sorted sort, year it’s going to take a bit of time but you’re on the right track.
Well, as requested by the doctor, I’ve been upping my fluid intake. Thursday I had 4.5l, yesterday 5l. Is it possible to drown that way??? I never realised how hard it is to drink that much lol.
It’s been a long, long time since my thyroid was as low as it is (not since I had to have the radioactive iodine treatment that destroyed my thyroid) - I’d forgotten, but apparently it could take up to 6 weeks for the change in dose to make a change in the symptoms. Looking back, I should have realised there was an issue - low mood, cold all the time, struggling not to gain weight, dry skin, damaged nails, exhausted, aching. I mean, duh!
It was most of the symptoms you had that made me see the doc before I went into hospital. I was convinced it was my thyroid, so they did a blood test and my thyroid readings plummeted and everything else went haywire too which triggered an investigation..the rest is history..however I had a blood test last Tuesday week and wasn't contacted by a dr. with the results so I'm assuming all is back to normal. Having hypothyroidism sucks doesn't it, but blimey, how do you manage to drink that much? You'd be better getting in the bath, not pulling the plug and drinking the contents 'til you're dry!!(rofl)
(rofl) so true, Flo!
I was actually hyperthyroid (due to lithium) and was told I had no choice but to get the radiation treatment, as hyper could kill me..... so at least I had some warning I was going to go hypo, unlike you - what a nightmare that must have been :(
Haz is hyo too. We've noticed similar symptoms just before hers needs upping. Sorry, I didn't even think about it when you were mentioning it!
Allalone
08-05-21, 01:57 PM
I have hypo as well.
Katie’s kitten (Sprite) (inlove)
https://i.ibb.co/Pj3FYzH/D99856-F9-5-FFA-4-DB9-8-EDA-5-FBDC84-F8-D0-B.jpg (https://ibb.co/NCQt3nB)
Stella180
08-05-21, 03:36 PM
He is soooooo adorable. I’m not really a cat person but those eyes make my heart melt.
OldMike
08-05-21, 03:36 PM
Katies's kitten that's so gorgeous love the name Sprite too (inlove)
Katie says he’s got a really loud purr. Do tigers purr??
My heads not in the game today, I’m feeling really fuzzy. It’s definitely a ‘not operating heavy machinery, or the kettle’ kind of day
Stella180
08-05-21, 05:14 PM
No, cougars are the biggest cats that purr and meow to my knowledge
Awwww...what a sweet pussy!
No, cougars are the biggest cats that purr and meow to my knowledge
But he’s a Bengal ;)
Stella180
08-05-21, 06:41 PM
Well that was autistic of me! That joke went totally over my head lol
He is so cute. Some cats do purr loud, two of mine you can hear them in another room if the doors open between them!Please take it easy sweetie or I'll end up chasing you round the forum with kippers aswell
Stella180
08-05-21, 07:01 PM
Oh great, Angie’s get her kippers out. That explains the smell coming from the staff room lol
He's so cute!
Are you pacing?
If by pacing you mean slobbing on the sofa all day under a blanket, then yeah ;)
Good, more of the same tomorrow I hope xx
I was hoping to do some study, but I’ll play it by ear
Maybe pacing the study between resting ?
Pace for an hour, 10 mins study, pace for an hour, 5 mins study.....
Date night tonight at the drive in :)
Stella180
10-05-21, 09:41 PM
More late night shenanigans? You most be home before midnight this time young lady lol
Nope, just got in lol. We saw Chaos Walking, which I enjoyed up to the point that they put the whole second book and 98% of the third book into the last 10 minutes! Apparently they were going to release 3 films......
Stella180
11-05-21, 12:39 AM
You dirty stop out! Sounds like a bit of a let down but I bet you still had a lovely time. Any wildlife on the way home this time?
So glad you had a good time even if the film was a bit rubbish at the end...
Are you going to be pacing today?
Ah, yes, Si doesn’t think a mouse made it across the road....
I probably will be doing cross stitch today :)
Butterfly
11-05-21, 08:34 AM
Glad you enjoyed the film, Paula. That sounds like a lovely time even if tze end of the film seemed rushed a bit. Hope you'll have a bright week xx
I'm glad you're going to be working on cross stitch..
Just ridiculous. Si and I have been invited to see some of his Hive colleagues on Saturday afternoon and I’ve agreed. Thing is, I’ve never actually met any of them and I’m shaking so much at the thought of it that I’ve just dropped and smashed a bowl!
Oh sweetheart try and take some deep breaths, have you spoken to Si about how its making you feel?
Could you possibly sit with Si and meet them before just one or two at a time on a video call or let Si chat with them and just sit and listen it might make it easier on the day for you
Stella180
11-05-21, 12:05 PM
Hey you know what? You should be the one shaking with excitement about meeting you! You are awesome and they will love you. I know meeting new people is terrifying but you get to put on your gladrags get your hair done, slap on the make up and have a good time with your husband. Focus on the positives.
I totally agree with the others!
It'll be awesome, but even if you hate them then so what? Isn't he leaving soon?
He left in December - but these are his friends (one of them was a friend from Vodafone who recommended him for job at Hive). But I’ve said before, I think, how Si has always kept work and home separate. In all the time we’ve been together, I think I’ve only spent significant time with just one person from his work.
Si knows I’m anxious...
Stella180
11-05-21, 03:39 PM
So what does this tell you? Si keeps home and work separate but he wants you the meet these people. He wants them to meet you! This is a big positive. Plus if you rarely get to see his work colleagues once this is over you probably won’t see them again. Either that or you’ll make new friends. Struggling to see a downside, apart from that damned anxiety that will tell you lies to stop to from going and enjoying yourself.
I totally get the anxiety. Marc always kept things really separate too. So although I might have heard the names and the stories I didn't know who was who... You can do this.
Stella180
11-05-21, 06:12 PM
Maybe break down what it is that you are worried about? I know anxiety throws logic out of the window but maybe between us we can help make it easier?
It doesn’t help that it’s my dads 70th Saturday, and they’re coming up so it’s going to be a full on day
Stella180
11-05-21, 08:18 PM
Ahhhh yeah. That’s tough and it’s obvious Daddy comes first.
Are you going to be able to take time out to rest a bit? Before, during and most definitely after?
OldMike
12-05-21, 07:31 AM
For me Covid factors into meeting people these days and causes anxiety I don't know if this is an issue for you Paula. But like most things meeting new people often seems scarier than actually meeting them also throw a lot of people in a room you can usually find someone who is on your wavelength. I presume these friends of Si's from Hive will be with their husbands/wives/partners I'm sure you'll get on fine. (panda)
Why won't you be able to rest before or after?
Mum and dad are arriving at 10, and the other thing is afternoon, not evening
Can you get some rest in now and then after sweetheart x
Absolutely plan in resting now and after. Are Mum and Dad only up for the day?
Yes, and they’re seeing my brother in the afternoon. We’ve had all sorts of issues with this because my brother wanted to do a bbq for all of us ‘it’s only 2 days before regs are easing’...... and I refused. As it is, if it rains on Saturday, it’s going to be difficult
It puts you in a very difficult position.... That can't be helping with your anxiety... What does Si say?
Si agreed with me, but we had words yesterday as I asked what we’ll do if it rains, and he said ‘well, you can’t see them then.’ I told Si an hour ago that I was anxious over meeting his friends and he told me that they’re nice people and ‘you’ll be fine’. Aaaarrrrggggh does he not get anxiety, even after all these years???
Stella180
12-05-21, 01:47 PM
But, you do know anxiety very well. You know that it is irrational, and if you give into it you’ll never do anything. You also know that if you can fight through the anxiety symptoms you are likely to have a lovely time. I know it’s not easy stepping out of your comfort zone and meeting new people but you can do this.
When has he, or anyone for that matter, ever seen me give into it? That doesn’t mean that, if I say to him I’m anxious, I don’t want empathy, rather than a ‘you’ll be fine’
Stella180
12-05-21, 02:10 PM
I’m gonna shut up now.
When has he, or anyone for that matter, ever seen me give into it? That doesn’t mean that, if I say to him I’m anxious, I don’t want empathy, rather than a ‘you’ll be fine’
OMG What it is with men? The other night I was sobbing and Marc just ignored me, it was Fern who gave me a hug and wanted to hold me until I could breathe again.... He just "didn't get it" apparently. I know he didn't mean to be unfeeling but all I had from him is that my sisters were probably right and we should drive down to "fix it" - me apologise when it wasn't my fault......
Although I know he's right (both Marc and Si) and you will be fine, I can totally understand the need for someone to sit with you for a bit and empathise with how much of a big deal this feels right now....
You're welcome. I do understand....
It is the way it is said to you that doesn't help, and sometimes I think men find it hard on how to say things itms?
Really OK? What'cha up to today?
I’m being kind to me - cross stitch :)
Forgot to say, I was talking to the GP the other day to get the meds I take for my IIH put on repeat. She told me it can reduce sodium levels and put pressure on kidneys.......
Oh love...
How are you today?
Stella180
14-05-21, 08:45 AM
One know the way the medication game works. Fix one thing risk other problem.
I’m ok. Really looking forward to seeing mum and dad
Stella180
14-05-21, 11:03 AM
I bet you are too. Hope you have a lovely time with your folks and Happy Birthday to your dad.
I'm so pleased you're going to get to see them both! Happy birthday to your Dad too!
Have a great time with your parents sweetie, happy birthday to your Dad from me aswell x
It was so wonderful seeing mum dad (though their ferry got cancelled so had to take a later one meaning it was all a bit more rushed -hey ho). I think dad was really happy to see us all on his birthday (even if he does have to cope with being in his seventies lol). Si’s friends were all lovely and it was a good afternoon. I’m absolutely wrecked so it’s a quiet day today ;)
Sorry it was a bit rushed but glad you had a good time with your parents hunni, and also really glad that you had a good time with Si's friends, please rest now though xx
YAY for seeing your parents! Sorry it was a shorter time, but you're going to stay with them soon aren't you?
So glad everything went well with Si'd friends - knew it would!
Hope today is a resting and pacing day..
Yep, I’m going over on 24 June :)
That's going to be so good for you!
Stella180
16-05-21, 08:07 PM
I wish you had more time with the ‘rents but it’s better than no time at all.
Butterfly
16-05-21, 10:40 PM
So happy that you've been able to see your parents! Sad that it was cut short but it's always so good to have a meeting with the parents, no matter how small. Glad you're able to see them again next month :)
Morning love, how are you doing?
I’m ok, I really rested yesterday so am recovered from Saturday. I even texted the host yesterday to thank her :)
Study today....
Yay! So positive! Are you going to repeat it at all?
What? The socialising or the hiding under a blanket?(giggle)
I think so :)
I made a booboo..... and had to fess up to the MIL......
I’m going to my parents from 24-27 June. My FIL’s birthday party is on 26 June.........
She’s forgiven me, I think (blush)
Oops! Lol... Never mind! I'm sure missing one birthday isn't too bad, you going and spending time with your parents is important!
It’s ok, I claimed thyroid brain ;)
OldMike
17-05-21, 07:57 PM
It’s ok, I claimed thyroid brain ;)
Always blame the computer, "My computer got it wrong" (giggle)
Very, very tired and achy today, so I’ve been quietly doing cross stitch.
However, Katie’s come over for dinner and hugs, so I’m happy
Hooray for Katie! Hope you're having something yummy!
Glad you've taken it easier too, sorry about the achiness and tiredness...
We had a lovely lunch (inside a pub!) yesterday with the girls :). And today, Katie and I are visiting my favourite antiques centre. It warms my heart being able to socialise with my family again!
Hmmm, so I may not have been fully open recently. I’ve been getting headaches every day for the past couple of weeks. They’ve not been *seeing stars* headaches but they’ve been there, and the past couple of days I’ve been a bit nauseous and drowsy. I’m seeing the opthmalogist tomorrow so if there’s an issue there, I’ll know.
But, in more positive news, Si has an interview tomorrow!
Good luck to Si for tomorrow
I hope it goes well with the ophthalmologist hunni x
Why haven't you mentioned the headaches?
I'm glad you're seeing the opthamologist. Let us know how it goes?
What's the job for Si? Hope it goes well!
Strugglingmum
25-05-21, 01:28 PM
Hope today is positive for you both
Why haven't you mentioned the headaches?
I'm glad you're seeing the opthamologist. Let us know how it goes?
What's the job for Si? Hope it goes well!
Because they’ve not been really bad, just nagging itms. It was only yesterday I started feeling nauseous.
The job? Pricing for a tech company, that’s as much as I know - his career choice is dull lol (he doesn’t even try to tell me what he’s doing any more (rofl))
Are you OK about seeing the opthamologist?
OO that sounds.... erm...... mathematical? (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)
OldMike
25-05-21, 04:03 PM
Si maybe a secret agent disguised as a tech pricing executive (giggle)
Are you OK about seeing the opthamologist?
Yeah, it’s a routine appt that just happens to come at the right time. I don’t like visual fields tests but am used to them
Stella180
25-05-21, 05:21 PM
I know all about “nagging” issues and underselling them. I’m guilty of that too but I’m regularly told that any change should be taken seriously. Better safe than sorry. I also know that the simple things that can be excused as “just a headache”, just an upset tummy”, just a bug” are the hardest cos you don’t wanna make a big deal about a small thing and it’s embarrassing when it’s nothing more that what it appeared to be.
You have your appointment now and hopefully it’s nothing major.
What time's your appointment?
Hope it goes well today love. Make sure you rest afterwards....
Scans and tests ok, optic nerves still swollen but no worse than last time. Follow up in 3 months. Im shattered so I will be taking it easy for the rest of the day ;)
Stella180
26-05-21, 11:20 AM
Rest sounds like a good plan.
Strugglingmum
26-05-21, 03:02 PM
Feet up princess and breathe.
OldMike
26-05-21, 03:14 PM
Feet up and maybe a bit of cross stitch ;)
Feet up and maybe a bit of cross stitch ;)
Exactly, Mike :)
So glad that there's no change... Have you rested?
Yes, but I’m still very tired....
Then you need to rest and pace more.........
Stella180
26-05-21, 09:27 PM
Early night for you Paula. If I see a reply to this thread before morning you’re in trouble.
Ok, so far. But my head last night was tough. I’m leaning towards it being me finally getting the headaches normally associated with IIH though I’m due more bloods in a couple of weeks
Oh I hope not lovely... Are you hydrating enough? Eating enough?
Yes, loads, and yes. In fact I’ve stopped tracking with weightwatchers and am probably eating slightly more than I have been for the past year. I’ll wait and see what the bloods say
When do you get the results?
Haven’t had them done yet - I can’t for another 2-3 weeks
Fair enough x Are you resting and pacing?
Morning love, how are you doing?
I’m ok, having my hair cut, mani and pedi today so a real pampering day ahead :)
OO sounds lovely! Enjoy your pampering day!
Stella180
28-05-21, 09:44 AM
Nice! That’s the way go get ready for the weekend.
Once upon a time I was a real sun worshipper - I’d be out there for hours, and would tan as soon as look at the sun. Today, I can’t sit in direct sunlight (and not because I’m a vampire - my skin burns where the crps is!) and the heat is hurting my knee, my hip and my hand. Therefore, I’m grumpy...... (my family have run for cover ;))
Oh, I hate the sun as I've developed an allergy to it over the years. Stupidly I didn't sun cream (factor 50) before going to Mums.... so I arrived begging for an antihistamine... I'm not burnt, just an allergy rash!
It’s very late/early but I’m just chilling after an evening with friends- inc my ex husband ;). Si did a lovely bbq and it was so great to have a proper grownup evening. I may be a little tipsy and will probably pay for it tomorrow but totally worth it lol
YAY! So glad you had a lovely time! How are you doing this morning? lol
I’m absolutely fine! Which is a miracle as I’d had gin, red wine and Sambuca, and didn’t go to bed til 2am…….;)
Stella180
13-06-21, 12:00 PM
Oh you party animal! So glad you had a lovely evening.
After months getting Si to agree to get our new furniture, and 2 months waiting for it, 3 of the 4 pieces turned up yesterday (the tv unit is still to come). And it’s beautiful, except that the coffee table has a massive crack right through the middle. *sighs in frustration*
https://i.ibb.co/89thZ8g/FF909158-1-B0-E-4-FD9-B902-CE81-A9-B496-C1.jpg (https://ibb.co/x6d4T5q)
https://i.ibb.co/qjVLmZZ/E4-B1-A2-C2-4244-40-AD-879-C-04-ADC043441-D.jpg (https://ibb.co/NCbgW44)
It is beautiful! Are you going to complain about the coffee table?
It’ll have to be replaced - it’s the whole length of it
That's always disappointing! Hope it arrives soon!
So, I know I’ve not said much recently. No real reason, I don’t think.
Anyway, yesterday Si had 2 interviews, both went well, one was good but the other was a 2nd interview for what sounds like his perfect job. I think we’re both trying very hard not to get our hopes up. 6 months without work is a little too long for our nerves…..
I’m going to mum and dads on Thursday, I’m excited, but nervous about the journey too.
All in all, I’m a little on edge…
Jaquaia
22-06-21, 07:17 PM
You'll be fine. I know that as you're awesome
Perfect job? Is that a mix of working from the office and home? Locally? When's he likely to hear?
I can totally see why you're nervous about the drive. You'll be OK as long as you remember to take rest breaks and pace yourself. At the other end of the journey are 2 loving parents who want to spoil you and take care of you. When it's time to come home you'll have Si waiting for you x You've got this.
The job is Director of Pricing and Strategy which is on a par with his job at Hive, the package is good and it’ll probably be a mix of office and home. The job suits him to a tee and he wouldn’t have to manage a direct line team - which he hates because he’s just too nice…. He should hear this week about the next stage (presentation)
That sounds really good. Is the office location near or far?
Stella180
22-06-21, 10:00 PM
The home of the Mars bar.
Only about 35 mins away from me! :)
The home of the Mars bar.
I went to the factory as part of my A level Business Studies course. They sent us all home with a ton of ‘seconds’. Best day of my life ;)
Stella180
23-06-21, 12:25 AM
I remember going past it when I was a kid cos my brother took me to work with him in the lorry. I got to sleep in the cab which would’ve been brilliant if we hadn’t parked up for night somewhere pretty close to Heathrow.
Hey, I’m home! Had an absolutely wonderful time and was spoiled rotten! Ate way too much (I’m surprised I haven’t morphed into a cake lol), my dad managed not too fuss too much and the weather held until yesterday. And I managed the trip, without letting anxiety ruin things :)
OldMike
28-06-21, 08:27 AM
Woo hoo sounds like you had a lovely time.
I'm so glad you had such a good time! The pics are awesome! Make sure you rest a bit now lovely!
Stella180
28-06-21, 12:24 PM
See, anxiety doesn’t rule over you. So glad you were able to have a good time.
Oh I’m resting! Cross stitch and Wimbledon :)
Good! I'm glad you're resting!
Jaquaia
28-06-21, 09:09 PM
Sounds awesome!!!
Hmmm, so I’m in a bit of pain today. I obviously didn’t sit very well while studying yesterday as my neck and back are on fire. And I turned over my foot yesterday so my whole lower leg is in flare. So sitting with a heat pad on my back, doing nothing but watching tv atm, and clock watching for meds….
Sorry to hear that you are in pain, Paula. I hope you are feeling better soon.
Oh ouch! What happened with your foot? Are you resting properly?
Stella180
01-07-21, 04:52 PM
You can watch the tennis and update us on what is happening.
Oh ouch! What happened with your foot? Are you resting properly?
I’ve spent the entire day with a heat pad around my neck and upper back - I’ve literally just turned it off. Nothing happened with the foot, it just turned over when I took a step. That was obviously enough to send my nerves into hyper mode
Ouch!
How are you today? A second day of resting and pacing?
Lol no, I’m out with my best friend for coffee this morning, and to my brothers for dinner. But I am better than yesterday and socialising will be good for me
I’ve relented to what Si has been nagging me about for weeks. My headaches are still here, I’ve been getting neck ache for the last week and today I’m dizzy. It may just be a sore neck, but I’ve made a telephone appointment with the neurologist.
Jaquaia
06-07-21, 03:12 PM
Good. It's best to get checked out (panda)
So why has it taken Si nagging at you for weeks for you to do anything about it????
I'm glad you've done that - when's it for?
Because I was having other investigations, my thyroid was out of whack. It could have been that causing the headaches, and the sore neck could be just that. But I’ve been so dizzy today….
It’s Thursday
Ahh, OK... Is your thyroid more under control?
Thursday is good, not too long to wait.
Thyroid was slightly over a couple of weeks ago, but meds have been adjusted so it should be fine. Lithium was checked last week and that’s ok too
About the same, but I didn’t have a great nights sleep so that doesn’t help.
In much better news, Si is doing a presentation today for one job, he’s just found out he’s through to the next stage of his dream job, and yesterday a recruitment consultant was so excited about putting him forward for another role that she put it all over LinkedIn (without naming him of course)
OldMike
07-07-21, 10:06 AM
That's good news about Si getting put through the next stage for a new job.
Stella180
07-07-21, 10:23 AM
Just a matter of time til he’s back in work again.
Strugglingmum
07-07-21, 10:59 AM
Ooo all sounds exciting on the job front. Hope your day is good. X
Do you know why you didn't have a good nights sleep?
Hope all goes well for Si's presentation! Sounds like he's really popular!
No idea, but I’ve just had a power nap :)
Good! You obviously needed it!
So, dr is not immediately concerned but realised he hasn’t seen me face to face since September so he’s going to get an appointment set up. I’m ok with that and, if he’s happy when he sees me, I’ll get an appointment with the osteopath - something I can’t do until I’ve had the ok from the neurologist
I'm so glad you spoke to him and that he's arranging that appointment. Was Si able to be with you yesterday? Has he helped lessen his concerns at all?
How did his presentation go?
Yes, he was with me. He’s happy.
The presentation went really well. He hears early next week. Also he’s got an interview in London for another role on Monday :)
Strugglingmum
09-07-21, 03:20 PM
That all sounds very positive Paula. So pleased. X
Busy bee!
Where's he at with the dream job? Is that one closer to home?
Oooo the dream job! It’s in Slough, I think, but prob mainly home based. He’s got interviews on Wednesday. I say ‘interviews’ because he’s got 4, with different people, starting at 1.30pm and going on til 7pm……..
Wow! That's a lot of interviews! He's going to deserve some self care after all that!
Well, well, well. Just had a text from MIL. I’d shared Suzi’s DWD fb post re the meme that being in nature is an antidepressant, medication is ‘shit’? I’d written how furious it had made me, that medication had saved life and I will never be ashamed of taking it. MIL liked the post and said “Re fb meant I liked what you said NOT what the stupid person who put up the message. They are daft buggers xxx”
I never in a million years thought that I would ever get such a supportive message re my MH from her. I’m actually quite emotional!
Strugglingmum
10-07-21, 01:00 PM
Aw that's lovely. What an encouragement for you. Xx
That's amazing! I'm so, so, so glad that it's had such a positive effect!!!!
Considering for over 20 years her attitude re my MH has been *challenging*, I’m stunned :)
It’s been a bit of a project but, finally (!) my living room is finished!!
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Stella180
10-07-21, 06:28 PM
Yeah looks good but where are the puppy dogs?
Strugglingmum
10-07-21, 06:29 PM
Looks wonderful. You have beautiful taste. X
They got chucked out for the photos (rofl)
Stella180
10-07-21, 06:30 PM
I house ain’t a home without furry friends.
Jaquaia
10-07-21, 06:50 PM
Love it!
So, I’ve had a lovely morning with Katie, getting my instructions for Sprite sitting over the next few days :). He’s such a poppet, it’ll be a hardship lol
Stella180
12-07-21, 03:46 PM
Are you staying at her house?
No, just going there to stay with him for a couple of hours a day - the big plus in having a cat, not dogs lol
How's your day been? How was kitten sitting? :)
Kitten sitting was lovely. We played, we cuddled, he ate, he pooped, he desperately needs the chop cos he got all excited when I stroked his back (rofl)
(rofl) (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)
Stella180
13-07-21, 08:25 PM
A randy little fella then lol
Apparently, I’m the only one he’s done that to - and I should count myself privileged (shake)
Stella180
13-07-21, 11:27 PM
I have so many jokes and not enough time.
What can I say? Obviously still got it! ;)
(rofl) (rofl) (rofl) That's hilarious!
Si’s finished all the interviews. He thinks it went well, but it’s just a waiting game now. He’s knackered but has got an interview tomorrow with Deliveroo so has to start afresh in the morning….
Stella180
14-07-21, 08:27 PM
I’m assuming he’s not getting his bike out and delivering Big Macs? Lol
Good for him! He's obviously very wanted to have so many interviews! Does he have a favourite so far?
Today’s is the favourite, it’s exactly what he was looking for - and the package is good….
OOO hope todays goes brilliantly for him!
OldMike
15-07-21, 10:35 AM
Hope all goes well with Si and his interview.
Stella180
15-07-21, 05:30 PM
Got everything crossed for him.
How does he think he did?
Ok, but we won’t know for a few days
Soooo, I had a health check at the doctors today and I have officially got on top of my high blood pressure - no more BP meds!(party)
Jaquaia
21-07-21, 10:54 AM
Brilliant!!!
That's awesome! Well done love!
Jess really, really hurt me last night. Back story - most of my working life was spent in HR and recruitment.
Jess wants to start looking for a new job so needed to update her CV. Despite my experience, she insisted on Si helping her, which actually meant Si spent an hour completely rewriting it with her input. Once he’d done, as I was sitting next to him, he passed the laptop over so I could check it over. I saw a big mistake in how certain bits (her exams) were set out so started to fix the issue. Jess flew over to me, snatched the laptop out of my hands and told me to mind my own business! I mean, CVS were literally my job. I’ve read and processed thousands, rewritten hundreds and interviewed goodness knows how many applicants based on them. No matter how hard I try, she just keeps rejecting me.
Stella180
29-07-21, 06:11 PM
That’s a bit harsh. You were only trying to help.
I'm sorry love. Did she explain why?
Si spoke to her. Her response was to stand next to me and say ‘you alright?’ That was it, no apology, no explanation.
That sounds horrible. What did Si say after that? I thought things between you and Jess had calmed down?
I sympathise, things are awkward to say the least with Fern and... Well about everyone I think...
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