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Stella180
14-08-20, 11:00 PM
Ermmm, why take it to the vet if it’s dead? Bit late for that.

Paula
15-08-20, 08:53 AM
To get the chip read To notify the owners

Suzi
15-08-20, 09:52 AM
Oh poor Katie! That's so sad, but the owners will be forever grateful that they at least will be able to know what happened to their pet because of her and Si.
Hope you've a gentler, easier day planned?

Paula
15-08-20, 10:27 AM
Nope. Packing today (party)

Suzi
15-08-20, 12:03 PM
Woohoo!

Flo
15-08-20, 03:43 PM
What a great name! Giggling Squid!...there is/was a pub in Salisbury called The Slurping Toad. Haha...enjoy yourself in Bath.

Stella180
15-08-20, 03:48 PM
To get the chip read To notify the owners

Of course, doh.

Paula
19-08-20, 05:13 PM
Well, we’re home! We had a truly lovely few days in Bath, I completely blew the diet and ate whatever I wanted, we visited the Roman Baths and Bath Abbey, sat in parks eating ice cream and sat next to each other reading our books. Bliss :)

Now to get back on the diet lol

Suzi
19-08-20, 05:34 PM
Sounds like a lovely time. I'm really pleased for you x

Flo
19-08-20, 05:48 PM
Over already? Those few days went quickly...but glad you had a good time!

Jaquaia
19-08-20, 06:06 PM
So glad you had a lovely time!

Stella180
19-08-20, 06:59 PM
Sounds ideal. Glad you had a lovely time.

Strugglingmum
19-08-20, 09:38 PM
Well, we’re home! We had a truly lovely few days in Bath, I completely blew the diet and ate whatever I wanted, we visited the Roman Baths and Bath Abbey, sat in parks eating ice cream and sat next to each other reading our books. Bliss :)

Now to get back on the diet lol


Sounds idyllic. X

Suzi
20-08-20, 07:46 AM
Are you resting today or being really busy?

Paula
20-08-20, 07:49 AM
Trying to decide whether to revise or do some cross stitch. Regardless, I’ll be resting my leg ;)

Suzi
20-08-20, 07:59 AM
You sore? Overdone it muchly I imagine....

Paula
20-08-20, 09:12 AM
Hugely muchly. Totally worth it tho ;)

Suzi
20-08-20, 09:48 AM
Awesome! :) I totally get that!

Strugglingmum
20-08-20, 10:33 AM
Enjoy whatever you get up to. Maybe a bit of both?

Paula
21-08-20, 08:09 PM
I had a letter from my pharmacy today. From April next year, Priadel (the brand of lithium I take) are being discontinued. So, I’m going to have to change to another brand. Unfortunately, though, different brands of lithium don’t necessarily have equal levels of lithium in them, so the change may be a bit of a pita until they work out what’s going to work for me.....

Stella180
21-08-20, 09:20 PM
Ugh, I hate brand changes and it sounds like this particular one is gonna be especially awkward for you.

Suzi
21-08-20, 09:46 PM
Oh no, that's a complete pita! Hope it's an easy swap for you though x

Strugglingmum
22-08-20, 12:05 AM
Hopefully the change over wont be too bad for you. When I was on lithium the chemist wasnt able to get my brand once but they were able to get whatever was known to be closest to it and my levels were ok. It may take a bit of adjustment and more regular blood tests for a few weeks till it settles

Paula
22-08-20, 09:41 AM
Soooooooooo, this Friday, we are going to visit a potential friend for Jax! She’s apparently little, black and a bit of a minx ;)

https://www.greyhoundlifeline.co.uk/adopt/demi-2/

But, it’s not a done deal. Si has insisted that he’s not yet definitely agreeing to getting another dog, only to visit her .....

Strugglingmum
22-08-20, 10:00 AM
(happy)
Oooooo exciting. Sooooo just like Jax was only to be fostered?(rofl)

Paula
22-08-20, 10:15 AM
I’m hoping so (giggle)

OldMike
22-08-20, 10:37 AM
I'm sure Si can be persuaded that Jax really REALLY needs a friend ;)

Stella180
22-08-20, 10:57 AM
She sounds like she could be a bit of a handful but she’s a cuddle monster and I’m pretty sure that is what piqued you’re interest

Suzi
22-08-20, 11:08 AM
She sounds like so much fun and a great companion to Jax! :)

Paula
22-08-20, 12:01 PM
She sounds like she could be a bit of a handful but she’s a cuddle monster and I’m pretty sure that is what piqued you’re interest

Absolutely!

Stella and I had a conversation yesterday - much as I love him and he’s the sweetest soul, Jax is definitely Si’s dog and I don’t get cuddles and attention. I’m hoping Demi will remedy that, even Jess is feeling sorry for me! ;)

Suzi
22-08-20, 04:54 PM
Aww so why are you waiting till Friday?

EJ
22-08-20, 05:05 PM
Paula I’m on Priadel too and I haven’t been informed about this change. Perhaps they will let me know soon ? I take two 400mg and one 200mg at night. This is very interesting. Maybe I will get in touch with my GP on Monday. I will do my own research too.

Paula
22-08-20, 06:02 PM
Aww so why are you waiting till Friday?

So the girls can go with us


Paula I’m on Priadel too and I haven’t been informed about this change. Perhaps they will let me know soon ? I take two 400mg and one 200mg at night. This is very interesting. Maybe I will get in touch with my GP on Monday. I will do my own research too.

I got a letter from the pharmacy (Boots) who do my repeats. I’d imagine you’ll be notified soon

Suzi
22-08-20, 08:16 PM
I hope she works out - or that you find someone different ;)

Paula
24-08-20, 04:53 PM
Eurgh. I’ve just revised 3 units of study. My brain and my eyes hurt .....

Stella180
24-08-20, 05:13 PM
Feet up, cuppa and Lucifer now then.

Suzi
24-08-20, 05:55 PM
Absolutely rest now!

Strugglingmum
24-08-20, 07:01 PM
Definitely a well deserved break due but well done.

Paula
24-08-20, 07:07 PM
Feet up, cuppa and Lucifer now then.

I’ve finished.......

I’ve also managed to twist my bad knee - getting onto the sofa :o

Suzi
24-08-20, 08:26 PM
Oh no! Is it OK? Are you resting it?

Stella180
24-08-20, 08:27 PM
How could they end it like that? Great fight scene though.

Make sure you take it easy with that knee

Suzi
24-08-20, 08:30 PM
No spoilers!!!!

Stella180
24-08-20, 08:34 PM
Hurry up and catch up then bird. It’s ace.

Paula
24-08-20, 09:05 PM
It’s only a mid season break, thankfully

Suzi, I’m resting it. It’s quite sore, you know when you do something and feel sick?.....

Suzi
25-08-20, 08:46 AM
I know that feeling all too well... How is it today?

Paula
25-08-20, 01:20 PM
Sore but not vomit inducing sore.

Today has not gone to plan. I intended to revise until my nail appt at 3. Overslept, then couldn’t keep my eyes open so have dithered all morning.....

Stella180
25-08-20, 01:22 PM
You clearly needed to rest up.

Paula
25-08-20, 01:23 PM
Probably ;)

Strugglingmum
25-08-20, 02:05 PM
Sore but not vomit inducing sore.

Today has not gone to plan. I intended to revise until my nail appt at 3. Overslept, then couldn’t keep my eyes open so have dithered all morning.....

Obviously what you needed. Pain is so draining. Knee easier today?

Stella180
25-08-20, 02:59 PM
Probably ;)

No probably about it. It won’t hurt you to have a chill out day as well as some pampering.

Suzi
25-08-20, 04:05 PM
So, have you paced the rest of the day?

Paula
25-08-20, 05:50 PM
I’ve been pampered - nails and toes looking all pretty again ;). My knee is fine, a little sore but nothing I can’t deal with

Strugglingmum
25-08-20, 06:55 PM
That's fab. Pampering should come on prescription.

Paula
25-08-20, 07:37 PM
Hell yeah ;)

Paula
27-08-20, 04:31 PM
So, I’ve done 2 mocks today and got 86% and 91% respectively. So, hopefully, I’m ready for the real thing tomorrow. Brain is fried......

Stella180
27-08-20, 04:36 PM
Of course you’re ready. You’ve got this!

Suzi
27-08-20, 07:31 PM
I have every faith in you! You've got this!!

Paula
27-08-20, 08:33 PM
Having a minor wobble. Si’s boss is leaving tomorrow - he’s been made redundant. Si reckons he’ll know next week where the jobs are that he might be ok to apply for in BG - but I don’t think he really wants to stay so may take redundancy. He thinks he’d be there til the end of the year and we’ve got savings so he’s got time to decide next steps, and he’s really chilled about it. Me, not so much but I’m trying to be ....

Suzi
27-08-20, 09:26 PM
I know that's seriously scary, but trust Si. He's not going to do something that's going to drop you in it.. He's sensible. Talk to him. Tell him how you are feeling...

Strugglingmum
27-08-20, 10:03 PM
(panda)
I know the worries. Xx

Paula
28-08-20, 07:52 AM
Exam and demi day!!!

EJ
28-08-20, 07:58 AM
I hope the exams go well Paula xx

Stella180
28-08-20, 09:55 AM
I’m not Gonna wish you Luck cos you don’t need it. I am happy to share my positive vibes and confidence in your ability.

Jaquaia
28-08-20, 10:28 AM
You'll nail it!

Flo
28-08-20, 10:35 AM
Of course she will Jaq!

Strugglingmum
28-08-20, 11:00 AM
You've got this!!

Suzi
28-08-20, 11:41 AM
Demi day?

You've got this completely!

Paula
28-08-20, 11:45 AM
Exam done! Think it went ok - I’ll get an email ‘in the near future’

We’re meeting Demi at 4pm :)

Suzi
28-08-20, 11:54 AM
Ahh of course, Demi day!! Hope it goes brilliantly!

Well done on the exam, I'm sure you aced it!

Strugglingmum
28-08-20, 12:36 PM
Brilliant. Well done Paula. Hope this afternoon goes well..... you know, just going for a look;)

Paula
28-08-20, 12:39 PM
Exactly ;)

Stella180
28-08-20, 02:35 PM
I hope Demi is as wonderful in person as she is on paper. Is Jax allowed to go on a blind date to meet her or does he have to wait.

Paula
28-08-20, 02:45 PM
He’s coming with us ;)

Suzi
28-08-20, 03:15 PM
Hope the meetup is going well.....

EJ
28-08-20, 05:22 PM
Just realised Demi is a dog ! I hope that you had a fantastic meet-up xx

Paula
28-08-20, 05:28 PM
It went really well! She’s coming home with us on Monday :)

Strugglingmum
28-08-20, 07:01 PM
Fabulous news. Xx
I love it when you go just to look. (giggle)

Suzi
28-08-20, 07:17 PM
That's fabulous! So she got on well with Jax?

Stella180
28-08-20, 07:17 PM
Wow! Your taking her home? Well I never saw that coming...much. You do realise that you’ve taken on Luna and Polo clones right?

Paula
28-08-20, 07:34 PM
Wow! Your taking her home? Well I never saw that coming...much. You do realise that you’ve taken on Luna and Polo clones right?

Yeah, and when we saw them racing each other it really brought lumps to our throats......


In other news, my results are in. 88/100 (party). What a good day it’s been ;)

Stella180
28-08-20, 08:05 PM
Woohoo! New snuggle pup and excellent exam results. Lots of reason to celebrate this weekend.

Suzi
28-08-20, 08:16 PM
I couldn't be prouder of you! Well done lovely!

Paula
28-08-20, 09:35 PM
So, because I’m a glutton, I’ve signed up for two more units - Old Testament 2 and Doctrine 2 :)

Jaquaia
28-08-20, 10:57 PM
In other news, my results are in. 88/100 (party). What a good day it’s been ;)

Told you so ;)

Flo
29-08-20, 05:43 AM
So, because I’m a glutton, I’ve signed up for two more units - Old Testament 2 and Doctrine 2 :)

Well done you! Religious studies is such an interesting subject!(clap)

Suzi
29-08-20, 10:21 AM
It's nothing to do with being a glutton, you've signed up because you enjoy it! :)

How are you today?

OldMike
29-08-20, 10:44 AM
A friend for Jax and more studying what could be better :)

Paula
29-08-20, 10:46 AM
I’m tired Suzi, yesterday was a lot. But I’ll have an easy day today. Tomorrow we’re going out for dinner with the kids :)

EJ
29-08-20, 10:48 AM
Well done Paula xx

Suzi
29-08-20, 06:29 PM
How's your "easy" day gone love?

Paula
29-08-20, 07:21 PM
My sinuses are hurting which is making my eyes sting, so not as relaxing as I’d hoped lol

Suzi
29-08-20, 08:35 PM
(bear) Sinus pain sucks...

Paula
29-08-20, 09:38 PM
It’s not something I’ve had a lot of before. So not fun...... Still, I’ve been looking at my next 2 units of study and they look awesome :)

Suzi
30-08-20, 09:55 AM
I'm glad you're enjoying the study!

How are you today?

Paula
30-08-20, 01:26 PM
Still a bit sore but I’ve put my contacts in rather than wearing my glasses, and that’s helped a bit. My eyes are bloodshot- nice look ;)

Suzi
30-08-20, 05:18 PM
How has your day been?

Stella180
30-08-20, 05:30 PM
Eek, contacts! You’re braver than I am.

Paula
30-08-20, 05:30 PM
Quiet. But we’re going out for dinner with the kids in a bit - though I’ve had a hell of a headache all day

Suzi
30-08-20, 07:08 PM
Hope the headache lifts love...

Stella180
30-08-20, 07:35 PM
Have a lovely evening with the family.

Strugglingmum
30-08-20, 08:30 PM
Hope the headache has lifted enough for you to enjoy your night out. X

Jaquaia
30-08-20, 08:53 PM
Hope you have a lovely evening!

Paula
30-08-20, 09:44 PM
It was lovely. And the more time I spend with Dom, the more convinced I am that he fits right in our family :). My girl chose well.

However, the headache, sinus pain, sore eyes hasn’t gone anywhere. I’m wondering whether it has anything to do with my IIH....

Stella180
30-08-20, 10:49 PM
I was going to ask if it was the IIH. It would make sense.

Paula
30-08-20, 10:53 PM
I’ll have to see how I go the next few days. The consultant did say I should contact them if it got any symptoms .....

Paula
31-08-20, 11:03 AM
Demi’s home! She’s an absolute darling and her and Jax are getting on like a house on fire :)

Suzi
31-08-20, 11:27 AM
YAY! Happy Demi day! :)

Paula
31-08-20, 12:52 PM
It’s not taken long...... ;)

https://i.ibb.co/NC08ZSd/887-C56-F8-56-A2-44-C9-A656-0-D01-DAA859-BB.jpg

Stella180
31-08-20, 01:27 PM
She looks completely at home. So where do you and Si get to sleep cos looks like and dogs have commandeered the bed.

Paula
31-08-20, 01:44 PM
Jax knows his bedtime is downstairs, let’s hope Demi takes note!

Strugglingmum
31-08-20, 04:06 PM
How are you feeling today Paula? Hows the head?

Paula
31-08-20, 05:49 PM
Not great. I’ve slept most of the afternoon. Also, although it’s more likely to be IIH related imo, I am involved in the Kings College covid study and, because of my symptoms, they’ve asked me and the household to have covid tests, just in case.

Stella180
31-08-20, 05:52 PM
Oh sounds like fun for you all. Is Demi giving you lots of puppy cuddles?

Paula
31-08-20, 05:53 PM
Yes, she’s not put her head in my lap yet but we’ve been told she thinks she’s a Chihuahua in that respect so it’s only time :)

Stella180
31-08-20, 05:56 PM
I’m glad you have someone to snuggle with. Puppy cuddles make the world a better place.

Suzi
31-08-20, 06:15 PM
Awww! I'm being Crashed atm, he's suddenly come back to me after being Marc's for such a long time... But he likes to snuggle with anyone who'll allow it!

Paula
31-08-20, 06:17 PM
Bless him :)

Suzi
31-08-20, 06:18 PM
Lol, The 3 seater sofa fits 1 Suzi, 1 Crash and 1 Marc perched on the edge playing a game.... lol

Paula
31-08-20, 06:24 PM
(rofl)

Stella180
31-08-20, 06:45 PM
Stop taking up all the space then Suzi lol

Suzi
31-08-20, 07:49 PM
It's OK I got off the sofa lol... Back on it now :)

Stella180
31-08-20, 08:40 PM
He’s a big dog, he deserves a sofa to himself.

Suzi
31-08-20, 09:08 PM
Lol (rofl) (rofl)

Paula
01-09-20, 07:31 AM
After a little issue last night (wee on the carpet), Demi spent the entire night sleeping on a dog bed in our bedroom. She didn’t wake us once :). What was really sweet is, when he heard the commotion, Jax came upstairs and touched noses with Demi - like he was reassuring her

Although I’m still not feeling great, I think I’m going to start my new study today

Suzi
01-09-20, 08:46 AM
Aww a little wee is to be expected really.. So glad that she and Jax are getting on so brilliantly x

Are you sure studying is a good idea? You've still got a headache? Did you have the covid test? When do you get the results? Does that mean you're all self isolating until you hear?

Paula
01-09-20, 09:02 AM
Yeah, we’ve forgiven her already - even if it was after midnight (snooze).

I’m not sure studying is a good idea, but am hoping it’ll distract me
Still got a headache, and neck ache
We’re doing home test and they said next day delivery so hopefully today.
Results back within 72 hours but probably next day
Yep, we’re self isolating - Jess isn’t going into work and Cleaner’s been cancelled

Suzi
01-09-20, 09:10 AM
If it isn't covid and it is IIH what exactly does that mean? Is there a different treatment?
Sorry about the self isolation....

Paula
01-09-20, 09:11 AM
I don’t know and I don’t think my consultant knows either - but we’ve got to wait til the sleep study anyway

Suzi
01-09-20, 09:13 AM
(bear) (bear) (bear)

Paula
01-09-20, 09:15 AM
All the time I’ve had no real symptoms, it’s been easy to not think about it itms. If this is what this is, it’s going to affect my life significantly

Strugglingmum
01-09-20, 09:48 AM
(panda)(panda)

Suzi
01-09-20, 12:25 PM
Oh hunni, what else can be done?

Paula
01-09-20, 12:53 PM
I’m going to email the neurology secretary to ask her to let my consultant know the changes, and see what he says

Suzi
01-09-20, 12:57 PM
Sensible decision lovely x

Stella180
01-09-20, 01:04 PM
Sounds like the right thing to do

Paula
01-09-20, 07:24 PM
Another photo #sorrynotsorry

https://i.ibb.co/SRZWmd9/6-FEFCAF7-0-A7-E-4-C2-D-8-B66-E0-B0-E593-A7-BC.jpg

Suzi
01-09-20, 08:00 PM
Awwww!

Stella180
01-09-20, 08:15 PM
Keep them coming. Can’t beat puppy porn lol

EJ
01-09-20, 08:20 PM
They are gorgeous - I don't usually like dogs

Paula
01-09-20, 09:36 PM
They are gorgeous - I don't usually like dogs

Greyhounds are literally the King of dogs. For many centuries only royalty were allowed to own them!

Stella180
01-09-20, 10:46 PM
Princess Sparkles is allowed them.

Flo
02-09-20, 06:15 AM
Pharaohs had greyhounds too! Wonderful doggies!

Suzi
02-09-20, 09:31 AM
Morning love, how are you doing?
How are Jax and Demi doing?

Paula
02-09-20, 12:14 PM
Jax and Demi are doing great. They really get along, thankfully. She is, however, a little bit of a mischief and I’ve got a feeling she’ll be teaching him bad habits......

As for me, I spoke to the Neurologist this morning. He sees no reason why we should self isolate as my history, and my symptoms, scream IIH not covid. He wants someone to have a look, urgently, at my eyes so has suggested the opticians will be a lot quicker than outpatients - I’ve got an appointment Saturday.

Stella180
02-09-20, 12:24 PM
What has Demi been up to then?

Paula
02-09-20, 12:26 PM
Shoes, cushions etc ‘relocated’, digging up the lawn - that’s just for starters (giggle)

Stella180
02-09-20, 12:32 PM
Oh dear. She will learn some manners and maybe Jax will be a good influence rather than her being a bad one.

Suzi
02-09-20, 03:55 PM
Naughty Demi lol...

Glad you've spoken to your neurologist and that you're being seen on Saturday. (bear)(bear)

Flo
02-09-20, 04:04 PM
Hahaha!.....maybe change the name to DemO(lition) not Demi! She sounds a happy soul.

Strugglingmum
02-09-20, 05:27 PM
That's great about the optician.

Demi sounds like a real minx..... love it!!

Paula
02-09-20, 10:26 PM
Feeling decidedly under the weather tonight - I’ve had a headache all evening, and my neck hurts :(

Stella180
02-09-20, 10:42 PM
Demi cuddles and bed for you madam and no more screen time tonight.

Paula
03-09-20, 09:28 AM
I’ll definitely be taking it easy today...

Suzi
03-09-20, 10:18 AM
You still feeling bad? Is it easier lying down?

Paula
03-09-20, 10:26 AM
It fluctuates all day. It is easier lying down but I don’t want to do that all day lol. At the moment my head is throbbing in the background, there’s pressure back of my eyes and top of my nose itms. I’m getting intermittent blurred vision too. But it’s the headaches that are bugging me the most - and if they’re getting through all the painkillers I’m on.......

OldMike
03-09-20, 10:32 AM
(bear) (panda)

Suzi
03-09-20, 10:39 AM
Oh love, I wish I had a remedy for you... Pacing and taking it easy I assume?

Strugglingmum
03-09-20, 10:45 AM
(panda)

Paula
03-09-20, 01:37 PM
I’ve been doing bits and pieces around the house to limit the amount of screen time I have - nothing too strenuous.

Suzi
03-09-20, 03:05 PM
Feeling any better for it?

Paula
03-09-20, 05:10 PM
I’ve actually been asleep most of the afternoon, so I’ll have to get back to you on that ;)

Suzi
03-09-20, 06:43 PM
You obviously needed it!

Paula
03-09-20, 08:07 PM
Grrr I’ve always been a fan of NEXT’s online service but I have spent goodness knows how long trying to have an online chat with them to report a faulty item. You can’t get hold of them on the phone, there’s a 10 minute queue just to get a chat session, which kept dropping out and meant having to start a new one - with yet another 10 minute queue! I’m exhausted ......

Suzi
03-09-20, 08:22 PM
I hate things like that!

Paula
04-09-20, 07:53 AM
(party) I was woken up by a doggie snuggling up with me, this morning!!!

Suzi
04-09-20, 09:30 AM
Aww that's so lovely!
How are you feeling today hunni?

Stella180
04-09-20, 10:08 AM
That’s the best way to be woken up.

Paula
04-09-20, 10:54 AM
I’m ok. Having my hair done soon and mum and dad are coming later!!

Stella180
04-09-20, 11:07 AM
Sounds like you have the perfect day planned.

Suzi
04-09-20, 11:41 AM
Oh yay! A Mum and Dad visit! Hooray!

Flo
04-09-20, 12:33 PM
Have a lovely day!

Paula
04-09-20, 03:18 PM
So, the new org charts came out for Si’s job. There are 4 people across BG and Hive at his level who will be competing for 1 job....apparently they’ll all be evaluated by HR and the one with the most points will get the job. No one can be made redundant until 31 October so that’s how long we have to wait to find out

I know we’re fortunate in that his payout will give us a bit of breathing space, but I’m finding it hard not to freak out.....

Stella180
04-09-20, 03:35 PM
4 into 1 doesn’t go. The odds are against him but he could be the lucky one if being the man left doing the job of 4 is considered lucky. I’m sure Si will find something else pretty quick.

Suzi
04-09-20, 04:38 PM
That's horribly stressful! I assume he's already looking elsewhere - but he could be the one with the right numbers.....

Paula
04-09-20, 05:34 PM
He could, I’m not sure he wants it.....

Strugglingmum
04-09-20, 05:45 PM
Im sorry Paula. I know this stress only too well. Its our story too. Xx(panda)

Flo
04-09-20, 08:06 PM
Everything crossed for Si.....let's hope it works in his favour. Doesn't stop you worry though.

Suzi
04-09-20, 10:07 PM
I assume you guys are trying to talk things through with him about it?

Paula
05-09-20, 08:27 AM
Yeah, as much as he ever does....

Suzi
05-09-20, 11:09 AM
Oh :( How are you doing with it all? Are you talking? Planning? Job hunting for him? Or just quietly bottling it all up inside?

Paula
05-09-20, 11:23 AM
Ermmmm he says he’s got his cv out there and he’s talking to contacts. It’s likely he’ll be there til the end of the year, and he knows what his package is likely to be, what our savings are and how long it’ll last. Other than that, you know what he’s like....

Stella180
05-09-20, 12:23 PM
So he’s done pretty much all he can do. Sounds like he’s got everything covered. I totally get that the uncertainty is a nightmare but it’s all out of your control for now.

Suzi
05-09-20, 02:06 PM
He's sensible enough and will have all bases covered..

How are you feeling atm? Still having IIH symptoms?

Paula
05-09-20, 02:14 PM
Intermittently. Currently, my nose feels like somethings pressing down on it.

Stella180
05-09-20, 04:07 PM
How did your eye appointment go?

Suzi
05-09-20, 06:32 PM
Just to update you all, Paula has been sent to A+E as her pressures are really high and her pupils are really sluggish. She's struggling with anxiety so they are allowing Si to remain with her. She has been triaged and moved into AAU.
I'll update when I hear things, but I've just told her to put her phone away and ask Si to update me as and when....

Stella180
05-09-20, 06:35 PM
Oh no! That’s not good.

Suzi
05-09-20, 06:36 PM
She's being looked after which is the main thing..

Stella180
05-09-20, 06:50 PM
Yeah but even so I can totally get why she’s fretting. This wasn’t what she expected. I have a bit of a thing about my eyes so I think I’m freaking out on her behalf but as you say, she’s in the right place to be looked after.

EJ
05-09-20, 06:52 PM
Sorry to hear this as she is such a brave lady.

Jaquaia
05-09-20, 07:21 PM
(panda)

Strugglingmum
05-09-20, 10:49 PM
Just leaving some hugs for you Paula. Thinking of you(panda)

Suzi
06-09-20, 12:02 AM
Just to update you all I have just had a message from the lovely Si (Mr Paula) and she is staying in hospital tonight and having a ct scan and a lumbar puncture.
I'll update more as I know it.

Stella180
06-09-20, 12:03 AM
That doesn’t sound great but thoughts are with Paula at this time.

Allalone
06-09-20, 12:25 AM
(panda)

Flo
06-09-20, 06:34 AM
Oh no bless her!...much love from me. But she's in the right place and she's got a wonderful husband.(panda)

Suzi
06-09-20, 07:48 AM
I haven't heard anything else yet, will update when I can. Will pass on all your love and thoughts.

Suzi
06-09-20, 10:52 AM
Paula was admitted last night, but didn't get to the ward until 3 am this morning so is exhausted. She has seen the neurologist. They are going to do a lumbar puncture with sedation as she will have to be on her side, so she will be in for at least 1 more night. I have sent her all your love and best wishes x

Si hasn't been able to stay with her and has had to make an appointment to bring her clothes in this morning which she's finding amusing!

EJ
06-09-20, 12:11 PM
(panda)I hope that the treatment will be successful. X

Paula
06-09-20, 07:43 PM
Just wanted to stop by and say hi! Haven’t yet had my lumbar puncture but have had a blood thinning injection - forgot how much they hurt lol. I’m fine, my anxiety was high last night but I’ve been absolutely ok today and really not worried about it. The lumbar puncture will reduce the pressure and, although it’s not pleasant, I should be able to go home afterwards. And I’ve made friends with a 93 yo lady (who looks at least 70 years younger) who is now throwing insults my way - just like at home :)

Stella180
06-09-20, 07:46 PM
Swill they let you out straight after the procedure on will you have to stay another night?

Suzi
06-09-20, 08:50 PM
Paula is still waiting on the lumbar puncture currently..

Stella180
06-09-20, 09:27 PM
I’d be climbing the walls by this time. I’m not the most patient person but being stuck in hospital instead of being at home would seriously do my head in.

Jaquaia
06-09-20, 09:30 PM
Huge hugs (panda)

Suzi
06-09-20, 09:43 PM
Nah, she's making friends with the lady in the next bed lol - they'll be singing along to all the Salvation Army classics by the nights out....

Strugglingmum
06-09-20, 09:51 PM
Just wanted to stop by and say hi! Haven’t yet had my lumbar puncture but have had a blood thinning injection - forgot how much they hurt lol. I’m fine, my anxiety was high last night but I’ve been absolutely ok today and really not worried about it. The lumbar puncture will reduce the pressure and, although it’s not pleasant, I should be able to go home afterwards. And I’ve made friends with a 93 yo lady (who looks at least 70 years younger) who is now throwing insults my way - just like at home :)

Look after you lovely lady. Glad you are more relaxed. Love an older lady with a bit of banter..... that will be me some day. (hedgehog)

Flo
07-09-20, 06:23 AM
So pleased you're ok and will be coming home soon.(y)

OldMike
07-09-20, 08:58 AM
Things are happening so fast one minute you're home then next you're in hospital, hope they sort you out soon Paula in the meantime I'll leave you these (bear) (panda)

Suzi
07-09-20, 09:06 AM
She hasn't had the lumbar puncture yet, but she's doing OK.

Flo
07-09-20, 05:46 PM
Jolly good!

Suzi
07-09-20, 05:56 PM
Paula has now had the lumbar puncture and needs to see the neurologist tomorrow. She's still in good spirits although sore and woozy..

OldMike
08-09-20, 08:35 AM
Thanks for the update Suzy please send Paula these from me (bear) (panda) x10 as you can never have enough pandas.

Suzi
08-09-20, 10:40 AM
I shall do indeed!

Flo
08-09-20, 10:41 AM
Awwww.... let's hope she'll soon be home.xx

Suzi
08-09-20, 10:45 AM
She's being allowed home today!

Stella180
08-09-20, 12:16 PM
(party) She’s coming home
She’s coming home
She’s coming
Paula’s coming home (party)

EJ
08-09-20, 12:49 PM
That’s fantastic news x

EJ
08-09-20, 12:56 PM
That’s fantastic news x

OldMike
09-09-20, 09:53 AM
Woo hoo Paula's coming home (party)

Paula
09-09-20, 10:36 AM
Hi guys, I got home about 7 last night. Lumbar puncture has left me feeling a bit rough but it’ll pass. My pressures were very high - high is over 25, I was at 60. I’m on new meds and will follow up with neurologist in clinic. I’m so grateful the optician sent me up to a&e and the amazing nhs really looked after me :). I can’t sit upright for long so won’t be around much as it’s a bit difficult typing lying down ;) but will talk soon

Stella180
09-09-20, 10:45 AM
I bet it felt good to be back in your own bed again and have your family around you. I’m glad you don’t need telling to rest up for sorry it’s cos you’re uncomfortable. Hope you’re back to full power again soon.

Suzi
09-09-20, 11:42 AM
Good to see you're home, and even better to see you're taking it slowly and gently!

Jaquaia
09-09-20, 01:54 PM
Good to see you back!

Strugglingmum
09-09-20, 02:45 PM
Glad you are home and taking it easy. Hope you get some relief from new meds.

EJ
09-09-20, 03:20 PM
Good to see you Paula. I hope the new meds begin to work for you xx

Flo
09-09-20, 04:09 PM
Lovely that you're home again Paula. Nothing like home to get you better quicker.

OldMike
10-09-20, 08:25 AM
Glad you're home Paula (bear) (panda)

Strugglingmum
10-09-20, 05:57 PM
(panda)
Just leaving some get well wishes here for you lovely lady. Xx

Suzi
10-09-20, 08:47 PM
Paula's still feeling quite rough, and is meant to be spending most of her time lying down which she is finding frustrating and boring! :)

Stella180
10-09-20, 10:49 PM
It’s funny cos the thought of lying down and being waited on is quite appealing until you HAVE to do it. Hope you feel better soon Paula. Missing you.

Angie
10-09-20, 11:04 PM
Hope your on your feet quickly sweetie, much love xxx

Paula
14-09-20, 12:03 PM
Hi everyone! I’ve been upright longer than horizontal this morning AND I’ve managed to put makeup on. It’s been horrible but I seem to be on the mend! I don’t recall my previous lumbar puncture making me as ill as this.

I’m not sure how much I’m going to be able to catch up on today, but I’ll do my best ;) it’s just good to see you all

Angie
14-09-20, 12:05 PM
Its good to see you hunni and glad your on the mend but please please dont over do it xxx

Jaquaia
14-09-20, 12:18 PM
Good to see you!

Stella180
14-09-20, 12:21 PM
Yay! Good to see you back chick. Make sure you don’t over do it and end up horizontal again.

Strugglingmum
14-09-20, 01:06 PM
Lovely to see you Princess. (panda)

Suzi
14-09-20, 01:34 PM
Lovely to see you here love! Do not push yourself!!!

Paula
14-09-20, 02:05 PM
As if I’d do that (think). Seriously, I’m going to lie in the garden this afternoon and read a book :)

I got a call today and I need to go to hospital first thing tomorrow to pick up the equipment for my sleep study.

Stella180
14-09-20, 03:16 PM
So your going to have an uncomfortable night tomorrow then lol

Suzi
14-09-20, 03:29 PM
How was lying in the garden?

Paula
14-09-20, 08:09 PM
I didn’t stay out there long, it wasn’t as warm as they promised. And I’ve spent half the day on the phone to my pharmacist and my doctor trying to get my prescription for Amitriptyline - which I ordered on 3rd. Sorted now but I had none left so slightly stressed

Stella180
14-09-20, 08:31 PM
I hate it when that happens. I got it all the time with my inhaler and it drives me nuts

Suzi
14-09-20, 09:03 PM
It was really hot here :(
Glad you've got it sorted with the ami...

EJ
14-09-20, 09:15 PM
Sorry Paula that you had to sort your meds out. I have an appointment with the pharmacist tomorrow. I hope you are recovering from your stay in hospital ?

Suzi
15-09-20, 08:19 AM
Morning love, how's the sitting going?

Flo
15-09-20, 11:16 AM
Hi Paula.....it was here yesterday!...hope you're mending well.

Paula
15-09-20, 11:42 AM
Was up at the hospital early this morning to pickup kit and instructions for sleep study tonight. I got home and had to lie down for 2 hours - I’m trying to be upright as much as I can but it’s still a WIP.

Angie
15-09-20, 12:50 PM
It will come hunni take as much time as needed xx

Strugglingmum
15-09-20, 01:07 PM
Take your time and do what your body tells you. X

Suzi
15-09-20, 09:19 PM
Exactly, please, please, please be kind to you x